I stiil have a subconscious fear of approaching

[flows101]

Hey it’s your boy flows I need some advice on how to get rid of this subconscious fear I still have of approaching women. As most of you already now I started my approach journal on 18/04/06 and since then iv approached quite a few women but from time I still get this fear I still hesitate and it takes me 10 to 30secs to pull myself together I thought this fear would diminish over time as I approached more and more women but it hasn’t and now it’s actually beginning to bring me down .

So any ideas of why this is happening or how I could solve it would be most appreciated.

 

[d9930380]

Accept it

I think everyone does. I do and so does everyone I know. At the end of the day, you're putting yourself up for rejection and that hurts the ego.

The way I like to look at it is this: When you get rejected, is it ever as bad to the ego as you feared or was it just an irrational fear in the first place.

 

[ultamate]

fear of rejection has nothing to do with me cause I dont think of approching a girl untill I get eye contact and know shes interested cause she looks back a couple times so i know she wants me to talk to her, but even then i get my fear and hesitate:kick: so flows i understand:wave:

 

[superchristx]

Just because its subconcious, doesn't mean you cant influence it at all. Imagine yourself seeing a lady, and approaching immediately. She acts cold but you keep smiling and wear her down. Imagine this all the time, and it will start happening!

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

As others have said,its a game of numbers,you just have to roll the dice.Good thing is you can roll as many times as you want.