"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i started playing a sax

collalife

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i started to play the alto saxophone for myself. IT will aid in building my confidence and improving my dancing skills. Also as a bonus it will benefit me by carefully(strategically) using it when i bring girls home. what yall think?


anybody got any songs that swoon the girlz(tested preferred)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good luck playing any real songs to swoon the girls if you just started playing. Probably the only songs you will be able to play and even remotely sound good at this stage will be mary had a little lamb.
 

collalife

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yea i just played that yesterday.
 

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Honestly thought this said " I Started Paying for Sex "
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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collalife said:
Also as a bonus it will benefit me by carefully(strategically) using it when i bring girls home. what yall think?

Well, they are pretty heavy, maybe you can knock em out with it...



Seriously though, thats cool. Good luck with it. I don't play sax, but I think they are cool, none the less :up:
 

collalife

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yep next is the guitar but is air guitar better or electric guitar and whats the difference?
 

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air guitar? lol

you mean acoustic right?
 

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trverb said:
Honestly thought this said " I Started Paying for Sex "

LOL. Me too.

Then I got stuck with an image of this guy doing his best Kenny G impression trying to woo some girl. LOL. tricks are for kids...play it cause you love playing it. But if your playing it to pull, your a ****ing cliche foreal.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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