"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i started playing a sax

collalife

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i started to play the alto saxophone for myself. IT will aid in building my confidence and improving my dancing skills. Also as a bonus it will benefit me by carefully(strategically) using it when i bring girls home. what yall think?


anybody got any songs that swoon the girlz(tested preferred)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good luck playing any real songs to swoon the girls if you just started playing. Probably the only songs you will be able to play and even remotely sound good at this stage will be mary had a little lamb.
 

collalife

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yea i just played that yesterday.
 

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Honestly thought this said " I Started Paying for Sex "
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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collalife said:
Also as a bonus it will benefit me by carefully(strategically) using it when i bring girls home. what yall think?

Well, they are pretty heavy, maybe you can knock em out with it...



Seriously though, thats cool. Good luck with it. I don't play sax, but I think they are cool, none the less :up:
 

collalife

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yep next is the guitar but is air guitar better or electric guitar and whats the difference?
 

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air guitar? lol

you mean acoustic right?
 

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trverb said:
Honestly thought this said " I Started Paying for Sex "

LOL. Me too.

Then I got stuck with an image of this guy doing his best Kenny G impression trying to woo some girl. LOL. tricks are for kids...play it cause you love playing it. But if your playing it to pull, your a ****ing cliche foreal.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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