I started a new relationship

[_sideways_]

So...girl ...lady..chick.

Whatever is respectful now a days....

Found out she is jealous


Or I should say...
Her sister told me....she is jealous

But she never shows it to me.

Do I keep smiling at the wsittreses or recognize that it bothers her a little bit?

She hasn't responded negatively at all... which I thought was weird
..but her sister said...
She'll never admit it.

We know she's "different" like that.
But since we know her
.. her sister said...
You're in there...just be cool

 

[ThisIsSparta]

So...girl ...lady..chick.

Whatever is respectful now a days....

Found out she is jealous


Or I should say...
Her sister told me....she is jealous

But she never shows it to me.

Do I keep smiling at the wsittreses or recognize that it bothers her a little bit?

She hasn't responded negatively at all... which I thought was weird
..but her sister said...
She'll never admit it.

We know she's "different" like that.
But since we know her
.. her sister said...
You're in there...just be cool

Good, keep doing what you do. As you did nothing wrong, there is no reason to declare yourself before she even mentions anything.

I understand that women tend to get anxious if you make them feel insecure about their relationship status.

As he did nothing wrong with just being nice to other women in daily interactions, it is obviously her problem and he shouldnt make it his problem. If he makes it his problem she will expect him to read her mind from now on to appologize upfront for whatever gives her a little anxiety.

There is nothing bad in a little anxiety in a woman. It keeps her grounded to know her man knows his way around women and has options, should she act up.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If you initiate it. That’s wrong. If the waitress initiated it. That’s fine.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Um. Do not create a problem where there isn't one. Who cares what the sister said, are you the sister's 'lil b itch? No? Then do not worry about this unless or until it becomes an issue.

And be polite/nice/kind to servers.

This is drama manufacturing at it's finest. Seriously.