"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I start being afraid of girls my age

Who Dares Win

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Its getting serious, Im 30 yrs old so mostly have to deal in real life and online with girls 25+...well Im scared.

Most of them seems to be created from the scientist that created the droids in blade runner, he made them on purpose with a short shelf-life, except that girls reaching their expiration date at 26 just dont pass, they start falling in pieces...cant really explain but the more time pass the more they become like that guy who felt on the acid in the movies robocop when it comes of their skin.

I begin to notice also modification in their hair line after a guy in this board pointed it, are those chemicals they use to color their hair so harmful?
I mean I see 30yrs old girl that have kevin costner hair line...really? what more danny de vito at 50?

Agree that porn and movies give us unrealistic expectations guys but seriously, is that a decent standard?

I eat junk, exagerate with protein powders, pro hormones and tons of chemicals but my skin doesnt look as crappy and my body tone is at least 95% of what it was when I was 18.

Sometime I feel like we're in an episode of the outer limits.

I checked out some escort in my area to see which could be a high standard yet plenty of them above a certain age clearly follow that path.

When I was 16 I was checkng out a documentary from the playboy mansion where the old guy said that he doesnt take any girl above 24...I tought he was quite stupid to say such thing but nowadays I believe he wasnt that wrong.

I spare you the details about some girls I see on tinder, last time I was so scared I was 9yrs old and watching hellraiser.

The ones that despite showing their age are still in great shape are some estern european girls, saw plenty of them still doable even at 35.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yewki

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I wouldn't use the word scared, but I agree in that it's amazing how quickly they fall off the wagon. One year they're kinda hot, the next they're 20+ lbs overweight and disgusting. Another factor to consider though is everyone in general is just getting lazier. I have no interest in at least half the girls I see just on the basis they're overweight and look lazy as f*ck.

Online is a complete sh*t show though. So I still e-mails from OKCupid every week showing me profiles even though I stopped using it a long time ago. I'll scan through them and look at the pics for fun. I'm not exagerrating when I say out of probably 1000 profile pics I've glanced over the the years, maybe 2 or 3 looked bangable. Yes, 2 or 3 out of about 1000. Not joking. I legit do not understand how that's statistically possible. Whenever I see an e-mail from them it becomes a game to see who the least unattractive person is. On average the most attractive person is like a 5. Sometimes I can't even tell if the person is male or female. It actually is kind of scary come to think of it.
 
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