"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I start being afraid of girls my age

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Its getting serious, Im 30 yrs old so mostly have to deal in real life and online with girls 25+...well Im scared.

Most of them seems to be created from the scientist that created the droids in blade runner, he made them on purpose with a short shelf-life, except that girls reaching their expiration date at 26 just dont pass, they start falling in pieces...cant really explain but the more time pass the more they become like that guy who felt on the acid in the movies robocop when it comes of their skin.

I begin to notice also modification in their hair line after a guy in this board pointed it, are those chemicals they use to color their hair so harmful?
I mean I see 30yrs old girl that have kevin costner hair line...really? what more danny de vito at 50?

Agree that porn and movies give us unrealistic expectations guys but seriously, is that a decent standard?

I eat junk, exagerate with protein powders, pro hormones and tons of chemicals but my skin doesnt look as crappy and my body tone is at least 95% of what it was when I was 18.

Sometime I feel like we're in an episode of the outer limits.

I checked out some escort in my area to see which could be a high standard yet plenty of them above a certain age clearly follow that path.

When I was 16 I was checkng out a documentary from the playboy mansion where the old guy said that he doesnt take any girl above 24...I tought he was quite stupid to say such thing but nowadays I believe he wasnt that wrong.

I spare you the details about some girls I see on tinder, last time I was so scared I was 9yrs old and watching hellraiser.

The ones that despite showing their age are still in great shape are some estern european girls, saw plenty of them still doable even at 35.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yewki

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I wouldn't use the word scared, but I agree in that it's amazing how quickly they fall off the wagon. One year they're kinda hot, the next they're 20+ lbs overweight and disgusting. Another factor to consider though is everyone in general is just getting lazier. I have no interest in at least half the girls I see just on the basis they're overweight and look lazy as f*ck.

Online is a complete sh*t show though. So I still e-mails from OKCupid every week showing me profiles even though I stopped using it a long time ago. I'll scan through them and look at the pics for fun. I'm not exagerrating when I say out of probably 1000 profile pics I've glanced over the the years, maybe 2 or 3 looked bangable. Yes, 2 or 3 out of about 1000. Not joking. I legit do not understand how that's statistically possible. Whenever I see an e-mail from them it becomes a game to see who the least unattractive person is. On average the most attractive person is like a 5. Sometimes I can't even tell if the person is male or female. It actually is kind of scary come to think of it.
 
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