"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"I sort of have a boyfriend" need advice ASAP please

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JJMcLure

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She obviously doesn't have a BF, but chicks believe it's the best line they can use to get a guy not to try anything.

The way you approached it, telling her "she is interesting and you want to get to know her better" was a mistake. It puts a lot of pressure on her (like she has to perform, or live up to your expectations) - people don't like felling pressured, they like to be relaxed. Instead of playing off a "date" as a relaxed hang out, it came off as being more of an "interview".

As for the fact you've paid her compliments and made her know you like her over a period of time, that's just not going to help you out. As soon as a chick knows you like her, a timer starts ticking. If you dont make a move soon after, your chances fade away (she thinks you lack confidence to do so). And all the checking of her dating habits and situation, it's just a little bit AFC. Know what you want and go after it.

Giving her your number or teasing her about her "BF" will get you nowhere. Just ask her on an action date, don't explain it to her, rationalise it to her, justify it her, just ask.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Sort of have a boyfriend" means she's ****ing another guy.
 
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just question

I dont want to offend you tobeyou1, I was just wondering if you are a rock guy because of your :rockon: smiley.
Maybe you freaked her out with your rock style hair and cloths. You know how women are. No offense i like rock too.
 
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newdj123: yeah i guess. but i hate the "friends first" cr*p.

ScrewIt: yes ill do that

Skilla Staz: hehe its the least i can do. thanks.

coder: yes other girls aye. yeah its the most decent choice i guess.

flows101: no problem.

JJMcLure: action date aye. wont that freak her out more?

Eccentric: Ewww thats nasty.

newdj123: haha none taken. no i dont dress freaky i just wear jeans and shirts and sometimes slacks and shoes. But i do like rock.thanks anyways.

Well i see her this Wensday again.I will just play it kool with other girls i think thats the only thing to do for now or i can be persistant but im to lazy right now. maybe ill change my mind by then. Anyway ill be bumping into her for 3 more years so its all good. Thanks dj's for advices it helped a lot.

Peace out!
:rockon:
 
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