"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I sometimes over do it.

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Anyone ever go over-kill on the neg hits?
Its kinda like a thing i do with only specific girls, cause they seem to not mind really[the overly-confident ones only] lol.
But today i just went totally OVERBOARD on this girl.
i mentioned not wantingt o eve rpicture her naked, caling her a dike. telling this kid "don't lose ur virginity to a skank" and nodding at her hahah[it was all jokingly of couse, we have a good relationship].
and then she asked me for a ride home, so we walked up to my car with guys she doesn't know who are my boys. We were talking abou drugs and she mentions being able tog et anything for free. and my boy goes "thats cause you fvck the dealer afterwards, isn't it" lol her "byofriend"[he thinks he is,s she doesn't] is her dealer, so yeah. so she didn't deny it lol, and i bet she felt liek a skank entirely.

anyways, moral of the story, when i dropped ehr off i was like "bye chelsea."a dn she goes "bye" and didn't even look at me lol. My friend who was also in the car treated her like **** lol cause he treats all girls horribly.

hwo cna i get past this? and anyone got any tips/signs of when you're goign overboard with the negs? I sit next to that girl in class[she chose to sit next me me ;D], so getting over treating ehr like **** for one day should hopefulyl be possible.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No offence but thats not negging thats just being a jack ass. A neg is a backhanded compliment, I may have missed something but all I read were insults.

Tip of the day: dont call a girl a SKANK....thinking its a neg

These are some REAL negs:

-Aww.. nice hair!!! Is it real? (pull) Hey it moved! ... Wow.. you could be a hair model.. if you lose the split ends!
-You are cute.. in a kinda strange way!
-You got an interesting figure!

Smooth Player 056
 

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hahaha its hilarious. n she calls me a dumbass n makes fun of my grades n ****. we had a weird relationship, like i said.
 

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lol yea bro i think u over did it

thats just straight up being an ass
 

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You used your "****y and funny" in the wrong way. You shouldn't have been trying to make this girl feel like a skank. All you are supposed to be doing is teasing her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i know. the whole point of this thread was to try n make her not so pissed at me. but i really don't like apologizing. lol.
any tips?or should i jsut act liek ti never happened...and treat her on a lighter-nicer note.
 

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"I hope my buddies didn't get to you, you know they was juss teasin you."

if she says something about you sayin it too, be like "I was juss teasin you, you know I love you!"

And don't apologize for yourself.
 
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