"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I shaved my arms...

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Ok.. i was contimplating it in my head for quit a while now.. about a few days... i didnt know if i should or shouldnt. but some reason i kept leaning towards it, thinking it would be some added plus to my looks... my arms werent actually that hairy at all.. just on my for arms and a lil tiny bit passed my elbow, the hair wasnt thick but thin... but some reason i didnt like it.


so im in the shower.. and i start shaving it.. god... it must of takin me like 20 minutes just to do it... and finally its all of... my arm totally looks differentnow.. i might feel insecure ... i mean .. it looks like a womans arm... not as i expected.. it looks so smooth and so pure like a babies bottom... GAY AS HELL!!!

i keep thinkin well... people who get tattoos always do it so it cant be gay... but uhgg.. my gf is seeing me tomorrow.. and i know shes going to lose respect for me and think im gay for doing this.. gd damnit... what are your guys thoughts?


im going to let it grow back but im afraid of how it will look.... will it look stupid and weird?? if it doe sthen i might have to shave it again cus idont want people to notice... i shaved them... wtf did i get myself into?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shaved your arms?? That's ridiculous.

It's really gonna be obvious when the stubble grows in.

I wouldn't do it again. dumbass
 

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I think it is a great idea, do whatever makes you feel comfortable, not because someone else wants you to. If your gf doesnt like it, **** her, you will find someone else.

You cant feel insecure that you are just expressing yourself - it isn't permanent.
 

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I don't know about shaving bodyhair, per se. I did it 3 times in the past, all for swimming (it was tradition before the big meet). Given that I'm a bodybuilder, I do get rid of most body hair, but I don't shave. That takes too long and when the stubble comes in it itches like a BIATCH.

Here's what I use:

Norelco Bodygroom -
http://www.amazon.com/Philips-Norel...pd_bbs_sr_1/102-0443958-1886553?ie=UTF8&s=hpc

I can clear everything in about 5 minutes and visually it's just like shaving.

Nothing homo about it. Every single bodybuilder in the world does it - I'm sure they're all gay too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diu

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Ultimate fighters or Mixed Martial Artists shave all the hair on their body to prevent losing out on grappling due to the extra grip.

I bet they're all gay too.

Shaving is nothing.

It seems only those who care about performance or spend their time competing in worthwhile activities are the ones shaving.

The ones that talk crap about shaving? Probably nothing else going on in their lives.
 

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I shaved my arms, got lazy and stopped. My GF thought it was kind of weird at first, until she felt how soft they were.

Also, less bodyhair = more muscular looking. Unless your soft...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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next time you could just trim the hair... that way it doesn't look like a girl's arm but you aren't as hairy as Robin Williams. you can buy a cheap beard trimmer with adjustable settings. i use this on my arms and legs from time to time.
 

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I'll shave myself sometime in the future to see how cut I look. I have rather hairy belly (rhimes with Halle Berry lol ) and if I get nice sixpack then I'd rather show it to the world than hide it...

Being gay isnt about the looks :p I mean, does wearing a collar and barking make you a dog?
 
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