"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I shaved my arms...

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Ok.. i was contimplating it in my head for quit a while now.. about a few days... i didnt know if i should or shouldnt. but some reason i kept leaning towards it, thinking it would be some added plus to my looks... my arms werent actually that hairy at all.. just on my for arms and a lil tiny bit passed my elbow, the hair wasnt thick but thin... but some reason i didnt like it.


so im in the shower.. and i start shaving it.. god... it must of takin me like 20 minutes just to do it... and finally its all of... my arm totally looks differentnow.. i might feel insecure ... i mean .. it looks like a womans arm... not as i expected.. it looks so smooth and so pure like a babies bottom... GAY AS HELL!!!

i keep thinkin well... people who get tattoos always do it so it cant be gay... but uhgg.. my gf is seeing me tomorrow.. and i know shes going to lose respect for me and think im gay for doing this.. gd damnit... what are your guys thoughts?


im going to let it grow back but im afraid of how it will look.... will it look stupid and weird?? if it doe sthen i might have to shave it again cus idont want people to notice... i shaved them... wtf did i get myself into?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Brian Griffin

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Shaved your arms?? That's ridiculous.

It's really gonna be obvious when the stubble grows in.

I wouldn't do it again. dumbass
 

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I think it is a great idea, do whatever makes you feel comfortable, not because someone else wants you to. If your gf doesnt like it, **** her, you will find someone else.

You cant feel insecure that you are just expressing yourself - it isn't permanent.
 

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I don't know about shaving bodyhair, per se. I did it 3 times in the past, all for swimming (it was tradition before the big meet). Given that I'm a bodybuilder, I do get rid of most body hair, but I don't shave. That takes too long and when the stubble comes in it itches like a BIATCH.

Here's what I use:

Norelco Bodygroom -
http://www.amazon.com/Philips-Norel...pd_bbs_sr_1/102-0443958-1886553?ie=UTF8&s=hpc

I can clear everything in about 5 minutes and visually it's just like shaving.

Nothing homo about it. Every single bodybuilder in the world does it - I'm sure they're all gay too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diu

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Ultimate fighters or Mixed Martial Artists shave all the hair on their body to prevent losing out on grappling due to the extra grip.

I bet they're all gay too.

Shaving is nothing.

It seems only those who care about performance or spend their time competing in worthwhile activities are the ones shaving.

The ones that talk crap about shaving? Probably nothing else going on in their lives.
 

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I shaved my arms, got lazy and stopped. My GF thought it was kind of weird at first, until she felt how soft they were.

Also, less bodyhair = more muscular looking. Unless your soft...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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next time you could just trim the hair... that way it doesn't look like a girl's arm but you aren't as hairy as Robin Williams. you can buy a cheap beard trimmer with adjustable settings. i use this on my arms and legs from time to time.
 

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I'll shave myself sometime in the future to see how cut I look. I have rather hairy belly (rhimes with Halle Berry lol ) and if I get nice sixpack then I'd rather show it to the world than hide it...

Being gay isnt about the looks :p I mean, does wearing a collar and barking make you a dog?
 
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