"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I set myself up

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babysfirstcoffin

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So, after dating this girl once, I walked into her work today while she was on duty, smiled at her, and put a piece of paper in her hand smiled again and walked away. The note said:

Name of place
adress of place
date and time
dress to impress.


I went home later on to find a message from her on my answering machine wanting to do it a day earlier, but I told her I was too busy and I could only swing it at that time and date, so she agreed.

Next step - date time. Any suggestions on how to keep the mystery and excitement up?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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good job. She obviously tried to change the day on you, so she could show who is in control. You stuck your guns, and she agreed. Keep doing that, keep in control, because if you loose the power too early, she'll loose you. Iam guilty of it.
 
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