"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I set myself up

babysfirstcoffin

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So, after dating this girl once, I walked into her work today while she was on duty, smiled at her, and put a piece of paper in her hand smiled again and walked away. The note said:

Name of place
adress of place
date and time
dress to impress.


I went home later on to find a message from her on my answering machine wanting to do it a day earlier, but I told her I was too busy and I could only swing it at that time and date, so she agreed.

Next step - date time. Any suggestions on how to keep the mystery and excitement up?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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good job. She obviously tried to change the day on you, so she could show who is in control. You stuck your guns, and she agreed. Keep doing that, keep in control, because if you loose the power too early, she'll loose you. Iam guilty of it.
 
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