"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I seriously have a demented problem with women...

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, I'll meet a girl. I'll really like her in the begining. I'll go out with her. Take her out again, sometimes get laid, sometimes dont, but roughly after 2-3 weeks of meeting her I'll loose a tremendous ammount of interest. The girl will start initiating to pursuit me, and since I've lost interest, i'll only hangout with them as a last resort. Eventually she'll slow the pursuit down, and stop contact, and I'll start to miss talking to her, and then I'll go through a slight one-itis phase.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Alright, I'll meet a girl. I'll really like her in the begining. I'll go out with her. Take her out again, sometimes get laid, sometimes dont, but roughly after 2-3 weeks of meeting her I'll loose a tremendous ammount of interest. The girl will start initiating to pursuit me, and since I've lost interest, i'll only hangout with them as a last resort. Eventually she'll slow the pursuit down, and stop contact, and I'll start to miss talking to her, and then I'll go through a slight one-itis phase.
Sounds like you are aiming slightly too low..
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Alright, I'll meet a girl. I'll really like her in the begining. I'll go out with her. Take her out again, sometimes get laid, sometimes dont, but roughly after 2-3 weeks of meeting her I'll loose a tremendous ammount of interest. The girl will start initiating to pursuit me, and since I've lost interest, i'll only hangout with them as a last resort. Eventually she'll slow the pursuit down, and stop contact, and I'll start to miss talking to her, and then I'll go through a slight one-itis phase.
Damn I wish my issues with women were high quality problems like this.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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ya, I should be fortunate, that my problems are kinda small, and could be alot worse. Don is right though, I think my problem is i aim too low and when i've won her, I try to move up on the chain. I gotta aim higher, raise my confidence.
 
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