"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I seriously have a demented problem with women...

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, I'll meet a girl. I'll really like her in the begining. I'll go out with her. Take her out again, sometimes get laid, sometimes dont, but roughly after 2-3 weeks of meeting her I'll loose a tremendous ammount of interest. The girl will start initiating to pursuit me, and since I've lost interest, i'll only hangout with them as a last resort. Eventually she'll slow the pursuit down, and stop contact, and I'll start to miss talking to her, and then I'll go through a slight one-itis phase.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Alright, I'll meet a girl. I'll really like her in the begining. I'll go out with her. Take her out again, sometimes get laid, sometimes dont, but roughly after 2-3 weeks of meeting her I'll loose a tremendous ammount of interest. The girl will start initiating to pursuit me, and since I've lost interest, i'll only hangout with them as a last resort. Eventually she'll slow the pursuit down, and stop contact, and I'll start to miss talking to her, and then I'll go through a slight one-itis phase.
Sounds like you are aiming slightly too low..
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Alright, I'll meet a girl. I'll really like her in the begining. I'll go out with her. Take her out again, sometimes get laid, sometimes dont, but roughly after 2-3 weeks of meeting her I'll loose a tremendous ammount of interest. The girl will start initiating to pursuit me, and since I've lost interest, i'll only hangout with them as a last resort. Eventually she'll slow the pursuit down, and stop contact, and I'll start to miss talking to her, and then I'll go through a slight one-itis phase.
Damn I wish my issues with women were high quality problems like this.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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ya, I should be fortunate, that my problems are kinda small, and could be alot worse. Don is right though, I think my problem is i aim too low and when i've won her, I try to move up on the chain. I gotta aim higher, raise my confidence.
 
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