"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i seem well...kinda of whipped :(

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toddC

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Okay, so as you guys know my last few threads have been about this one chick. Now things are going pretty well. We've made out a few times yada yada yada. I decided next time I get with her I'm going to ask her if she wants to go any further in the relationship such as being together or w/e.

Now my problem is this. I'm ALWAYS the one to initiate the text messages durign the week / weekends aswell as the phone calls. Now online we kinda just switch off who IMs first but the phone is really whats annoying me. I usually always have to schedule around her and I feel like I'm being whipped in this situation. Now how can I make it so she feels the need to call ME, to text ME, and to drop her plans to be with ME? Is there such a way to do this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ4Real

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Seriously, you'll have to show her that you have your own agenda. And once she notices that you have this "agenda," and she truly "cares" for you, she'll want to adjust.

Note: she may try to "test" you within this process.
 
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