"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i seem well...kinda of whipped :(

toddC

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Okay, so as you guys know my last few threads have been about this one chick. Now things are going pretty well. We've made out a few times yada yada yada. I decided next time I get with her I'm going to ask her if she wants to go any further in the relationship such as being together or w/e.

Now my problem is this. I'm ALWAYS the one to initiate the text messages durign the week / weekends aswell as the phone calls. Now online we kinda just switch off who IMs first but the phone is really whats annoying me. I usually always have to schedule around her and I feel like I'm being whipped in this situation. Now how can I make it so she feels the need to call ME, to text ME, and to drop her plans to be with ME? Is there such a way to do this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ4Real

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Seriously, you'll have to show her that you have your own agenda. And once she notices that you have this "agenda," and she truly "cares" for you, she'll want to adjust.

Note: she may try to "test" you within this process.
 
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