"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I see where this is going, so why not...post your pics here!

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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holy sh1t this thread still going? fuk man i dont wanna see pictures of guys. who cares what y'all look like. its a feeling a little homo here. this is what chicks do! post pics of each other and wait for replies to see if they are hot sh1t!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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chance said:
holy sh1t this thread still going? fuk man i dont wanna see pictures of guys. who cares what y'all look like. its a feeling a little homo here. this is what chicks do! post pics of each other and wait for replies to see if they are hot sh1t!
Dude, why are you so scared and insecure? lol

The only one who really thinks its homo is you. Which says a lot about how insecure you are. If you know you're not gay, then what's the problem?
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Dude, why are you so scared and insecure? lol

The only one who really thinks its homo is you. Which says a lot about how insecure you are. If you know you're not gay, then what's the problem?
Hes not the only one that thinks it't homo, I also think it is extremly homo.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I just think looking at a man's picture is insecure in itself. It means you are either a) attracted to men b) you want to see a face behind words so that you can say "I'm better looking than that guy for sure". Sounds to me that you are the extreme insecure one. I have no desire to see pictures of men who type on this site. That's just weird to me.
 
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I just think looking at a man's picture is insecure in itself. It means you are either a) attracted to men b) you want to see a face behind words so that you can say "I'm better looking than that guy for sure". Sounds to me that you are the extreme insecure one. I have no desire to see pictures of men who type on this site. That's just weird to me.
then why post in the fvcking thread. get the fvck outta here in that case



by the way, i like a good ass fvck as much as the next guy, but that don't mean i'm gay. Its 2011, get with the program
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gears of Led Zep said:
then why post in the fvcking thread. get the fvck outta here in that case



by the way, i like a good ass fvck as much as the next guy, but that don't mean i'm gay. Its 2011, get with the program
You're a fuvking douchebag. It may be 2011, but it doesn't mean you have to suck dik. Say hello to your boyfriend for me. You are a dumb ass. You need to be banned from this site. Fuvking troll.
 

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Gray The Prince said:
I woulda never expected you to be insecure lol.

Why do you keep saying that? It has nothing to with with insecurity. Stop trying to justify your feminine behavior by accusing anyone who thinks talking about hair and or this thread is fem, is insecure.

This attitude that anyone who exhibits masculine behaviour, or more to the point doesn't partake in typically female activities(such as discussing hairstyles) is gay, or insecure is just flat out ridiculous. It's just one more way that modern society has managed to emasculate the modern man.

Where does the line get drawn?

Let me ask you this. Have you ever held hands with another man? If not, then you must be insecure about your sexuality because if you knew you were straight then you'd have no problems with it.

You might like to talk about your hair and post pics of yourself on the internet, and that's fine, but when some other guys don't want to take up knitting with you, don't assume it's because their unsure of their sexuality.

But hey, I could be wrong and maybe Hugh Hefner is so insecure that he needed to surround himself with beautiful women his whole life just to make sure.
 

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i dont find it gay, i also like to put a face to a poster. this is me here in hawaii, where i am now with my girl.


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There is nothing gay about posting your picture. However it is EXTREMELY homo to post these pictures of yourselves topless and looking at the camera with the "f-ck me" eyes. Especially considering that 99% of your audience are dudes. I mean seriously WTF??

I will be posting a picture of myself soon WITH A SHIRT ON. And to sweeten the deal there will be women in my pic so you can see what I surround myself with.

Put that gay sh-t on pause fellas. This is not that kind of party :nono:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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