As neo said in Matrix "I see the code". After painful relationships, crazy and (i suspect) BPD girls, ferocious push and pull and, on the other side, lovely make outsessions with different girls, relationships and support from equally lovely girls, now I understand better the feminine universe, maybe I'm around 25% of the entire knowledge, but I started from 0%. Rollo, Bradd80, Nismo-4 and you guys opened my eyes and now I can see things for what they are. I'm more cynical, I can see where things will likely to go based on actions and not words, I protect my heart and avoid too much emotional connection.I spot BS in a second and apply recklessly the three strike rules. I don't speak too much anymore and I let them do the work, if they're keen, if not goodbye. With all this in the background, the value of what I'm getting out from a woman or a relatioship is starting to get debatable (ok sex is fine but it's not everything). Do you guys feel the same?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I see the code like Neo
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
3 strikes? you are being generous there
