As neo said in Matrix "I see the code". After painful relationships, crazy and (i suspect) BPD girls, ferocious push and pull and, on the other side, lovely make outsessions with different girls, relationships and support from equally lovely girls, now I understand better the feminine universe, maybe I'm around 25% of the entire knowledge, but I started from 0%. Rollo, Bradd80, Nismo-4 and you guys opened my eyes and now I can see things for what they are. I'm more cynical, I can see where things will likely to go based on actions and not words, I protect my heart and avoid too much emotional connection.I spot BS in a second and apply recklessly the three strike rules. I don't speak too much anymore and I let them do the work, if they're keen, if not goodbye. With all this in the background, the value of what I'm getting out from a woman or a relatioship is starting to get debatable (ok sex is fine but it's not everything). Do you guys feel the same?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I see the code like Neo
- Thread starter joker79
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
3 strikes? you are being generous there
