Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

I see personal growth...

Ken785

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2004
Messages
1,910
Reaction score
22
Location
California
i was looking at my very first posts when i first joined this site about 3 years ago. i was reading thorugh all my threads and posts...MAN!! i was a mojor immature guy back then. Stupid as well...

i let an attention wh0re use me, i had ontitus with the attention wh0re, i offered to move in to a luxury apartment with her just so i can hope to get laid, i lied about losing my viginity, i did wrong approaches, i could go on and on.... A LOT of stupid mistakes....now i look at myself and seen that ive really grown....same thing with reading old journal entries....

i credit a lot of my experience and knowledge to this site and its contributers...im still learning and growing constantly just like everyone else here...even though this is just a forum, i come on here to talk with you guys and give/ask for advice like you are my friends, and you are...THANKS A LOT YOU GUYS!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Obsidian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2006
Messages
2,554
Reaction score
26
Location
TN
hey, reading all your old posts is actually a pretty good idea

altho i've got over a thousand now :S
 

lildevil

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2006
Messages
218
Reaction score
1
Location
from here
the same with me....

I see that when i put something important that happened i actually...see that im getting better and much more mature...
 
Top