"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ken785

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i was looking at my very first posts when i first joined this site about 3 years ago. i was reading thorugh all my threads and posts...MAN!! i was a mojor immature guy back then. Stupid as well...

i let an attention wh0re use me, i had ontitus with the attention wh0re, i offered to move in to a luxury apartment with her just so i can hope to get laid, i lied about losing my viginity, i did wrong approaches, i could go on and on.... A LOT of stupid mistakes....now i look at myself and seen that ive really grown....same thing with reading old journal entries....

i credit a lot of my experience and knowledge to this site and its contributers...im still learning and growing constantly just like everyone else here...even though this is just a forum, i come on here to talk with you guys and give/ask for advice like you are my friends, and you are...THANKS A LOT YOU GUYS!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Obsidian

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hey, reading all your old posts is actually a pretty good idea

altho i've got over a thousand now :S
 

lildevil

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the same with me....

I see that when i put something important that happened i actually...see that im getting better and much more mature...
 
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