"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I screwed up. Doubted her. What do I do?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
eaglez1177
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Screw these girls man they're not worth freaking out over. Game girls who arent such drama queens.
Why are you worrying what the **** she thinks? You don't need to explain anything to her. In fact, if this was the online girl, you shouldnt have even cared what the hell she was doing anyway
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
- you have a sister named Stephanie.
- spawn3dbysulphur. Screenname.
- you went to New Trier Highschool, class of '00, which is on Winnetka Ave in Illinois -- thats probably where your family is.
-you work for 'The Navigators'
-You're from Irvine, CA. Perhaps Fremont.
- You answer things on Yahoo Answers.
- I know exactly where you're going to be from 7 to 10 Tomorrow Night. Tim Be Told, UCI.
I could find you - I know what you look like and where you'll be.
That's the internet for you.
Plus this girl isn't even friends with you on facebook, it seems. She lives in Madisonville, LA, right?
See how back this would be if I was a fvcking crazy killer or criminal?
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Ice882 said:I just found this out through a simple google search, Jonathan.
- you have a sister named Stephanie.
- spawn3dbysulphur. Screenname.
- you went to New Trier Highschool, class of '00, which is on Winnetka Ave in Illinois -- thats probably where your family is.
-you work for 'The Navigators'
-You're from Irvine, CA. Perhaps Fremont.
- You answer things on Yahoo Answers.
- I know exactly where you're going to be from 7 to 10 Tomorrow Night. Tim Be Told, UCI.
I could find you - I know what you look like and where you'll be
That's the internet for you.
Plus this girl isn't even friends with you on facebook, it seems. She lives in Madisonville, LA, right?
See how back this would be if I was a fvcking crazy killer or criminal?
Uhm. Like two or three of these are true. The others are some other Jonathan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.