"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I screwed up. Doubted her. What do I do?
- Thread starter jwei44
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
eaglez1177
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Screw these girls man they're not worth freaking out over. Game girls who arent such drama queens.
Why are you worrying what the **** she thinks? You don't need to explain anything to her. In fact, if this was the online girl, you shouldnt have even cared what the hell she was doing anyway
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
- you have a sister named Stephanie.
- spawn3dbysulphur. Screenname.
- you went to New Trier Highschool, class of '00, which is on Winnetka Ave in Illinois -- thats probably where your family is.
-you work for 'The Navigators'
-You're from Irvine, CA. Perhaps Fremont.
- You answer things on Yahoo Answers.
- I know exactly where you're going to be from 7 to 10 Tomorrow Night. Tim Be Told, UCI.
I could find you - I know what you look like and where you'll be.
That's the internet for you.
Plus this girl isn't even friends with you on facebook, it seems. She lives in Madisonville, LA, right?
See how back this would be if I was a fvcking crazy killer or criminal?
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eaglez1177
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Ice882 said:I just found this out through a simple google search, Jonathan.
- you have a sister named Stephanie.
- spawn3dbysulphur. Screenname.
- you went to New Trier Highschool, class of '00, which is on Winnetka Ave in Illinois -- thats probably where your family is.
-you work for 'The Navigators'
-You're from Irvine, CA. Perhaps Fremont.
- You answer things on Yahoo Answers.
- I know exactly where you're going to be from 7 to 10 Tomorrow Night. Tim Be Told, UCI.
I could find you - I know what you look like and where you'll be
That's the internet for you.
Plus this girl isn't even friends with you on facebook, it seems. She lives in Madisonville, LA, right?
See how back this would be if I was a fvcking crazy killer or criminal?
Uhm. Like two or three of these are true. The others are some other Jonathan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.