"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I screwed up badddd! is there still a way?

the_azn_fu

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Hi, okay ive been in this jam for awhile now and I reallllyyy needed some help.

Okay so I’m in high school and there’s this girl. She’s one year older than me and she’s perfect – funny, smart, classy and beautiful. We just started talking but at first, I looked at it just as an opportunity to be friends, because I never thought it would work between us. I asked her out to the movies as friends, but after, I realized that she saw it as more of a test to see if I could treat her right. The days go by and we begin to talk more and more and I realized that I did like her, however, I did nothing to take it to the next step seeing that she probably thinks that I wouldn’t know what to do with her. I know I made a mistake in the beginning but I was wondering how would I tell her that I DO know how to treat girls right and that the time we went out, I thought, was just as friends. And any other additional help would be great. Mucho Appreciated.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shapoopie

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**** CHUMP ALERT CHUMP ALERT****

All I can say is, 1. no girl is perfect no matter what and by saying that my alarm went off, and 2. why do you need to prove anything to her?
 

shydude

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Try reading the guide "turn ur girl "friend into ur "girlfriend" !! Trust me it is good and u can find it on sosuave.com!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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