"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I screwed up badddd! is there still a way?

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the_azn_fu

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Hi, okay ive been in this jam for awhile now and I reallllyyy needed some help.

Okay so I’m in high school and there’s this girl. She’s one year older than me and she’s perfect – funny, smart, classy and beautiful. We just started talking but at first, I looked at it just as an opportunity to be friends, because I never thought it would work between us. I asked her out to the movies as friends, but after, I realized that she saw it as more of a test to see if I could treat her right. The days go by and we begin to talk more and more and I realized that I did like her, however, I did nothing to take it to the next step seeing that she probably thinks that I wouldn’t know what to do with her. I know I made a mistake in the beginning but I was wondering how would I tell her that I DO know how to treat girls right and that the time we went out, I thought, was just as friends. And any other additional help would be great. Mucho Appreciated.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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**** CHUMP ALERT CHUMP ALERT****

All I can say is, 1. no girl is perfect no matter what and by saying that my alarm went off, and 2. why do you need to prove anything to her?
 
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Try reading the guide "turn ur girl "friend into ur "girlfriend" !! Trust me it is good and u can find it on sosuave.com!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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