"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I scored the game winning goal in Soccer!

TheLoner

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On facebook, they distinctly left me out on giving Props.

Not even one mention of me.

They said: congratulations to Bob, Sarah, Matt, ****, etc
on a game well played, we won 3-2!!! Everyone played hard
and we will see you all at the next game.

Why do people do this? Am I pariah of some sort?

And then on Facebook I see pictures of the team going out
for drinks and stuff after the game and no one invited me!

This lack of acknowleding my existence is intention, malicious,
and devious. They are trying to break my spirit.


So lonely.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheLoner

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self-respect said:
Not buying this for one second.

They did not invite me out to drinks, I swear!

why would I lie about this stuff.

I scored the game winning goal, they didn't acknowledge me on facebook,

then when I check after the game, everyone went out for drinks after, and I had

no idea they did that, no one invited me.
 

Zion

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He's trolling. There's no way anyone can be that extreme.
What's sad however is that his source of entertainment is coming from wasting people's keyboard ink on threads like these. You might get some sort of high outta doing this , but in fact , it's almost sad as the person you're trying to project yourself as being.


Sidenote:
Bob and Sarah ? So girls play alongside guys in soccer nowadays ?


Trolling is supposed to be about fun. You however,are very sad.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheLoner

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Zion said:
He's trolling. There's no way anyone can be that extreme.
What's sad however is that his source of entertainment is coming from wasting people's keyboard ink on threads like these. You might get some sort of high outta doing this , but in fact , it's almost sad as the person you're trying to project yourself as being.


Sidenote:
Bob and Sarah ? So girls play alongside guys in soccer nowadays ?


Trolling is supposed to be about fun. You however,are very sad.

Yes, have you ever heard of co-ed teams before?

I originally joined to make some friends both male and female but everyone ignores me and pretty much doesn't invite me out or likes any of my posts on Facebook.

I asked you for your facebook, what is it?

You can see my page and verify for yourself.
 

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I have an idea ... QUIT SOCCER if its making you feel that bad. We cant make them like you. Go do something different. WHy stay doing something that is making you feel like shyt? Why put up with ppl that dont give a shyt about you? Join the opposition team then and show them that you had value instead of whining about it.

Listen to a song by Trooper called "Raise a little hell" and carefully listen to the words. Then follow what it says. :)
 

TheLoner

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Epimanes said:
I have an idea ... QUIT SOCCER if its making you feel that bad. We cant make them like you. Go do something different. WHy stay doing something that is making you feel like shyt? Why put up with ppl that dont give a shyt about you? Join the opposition team then and show them that you had value instead of whining about it.

Listen to a song by Trooper called "Raise a little hell" and carefully listen to the words. Then follow what it says. :)

They are all commenting about how great the game with, and tagging each other in the pictures, but I did not get one tag or mention.

So I should quit soccer? quit facebook? quit everything in life because im an outcast.

Evil.
 

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You should quit the team because you've been disrespected. They are not giving you a family there. If you take that kind of abuse, you only confirm their negative opinions about you. Find a different team, or just practice or whatever if it's a passion.

Quitting Facebook is choosing to live life without this digital cloud of false identities skewing your perception and sense of importance. I used to think oh hey what people didnt like that stupid fvcking video aw, but then I realized oh wait most of my friends don't sit on Facebook all day going through the 10 billion posts out there, wasting away watching videos and "liking" statuses for social approval. They're better than that. So stop giving a ****. Start thinking you're better than all this, and spend time in areas that provide self-actualization.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Swampcamel said:
You should quit the team because you've been disrespected. They are not giving you a family there. If you take that kind of abuse, you only confirm their negative opinions about you. Find a different team, or just practice or whatever if it's a passion.

Quitting Facebook is choosing to live life without this digital cloud of false identities skewing your perception and sense of importance. I used to think oh hey what people didnt like that stupid fvcking video aw, but then I realized oh wait most of my friends don't sit on Facebook all day going through the 10 billion posts out there, wasting away watching videos and "liking" statuses for social approval. They're better than that. So stop giving a ****. Start thinking you're better than all this, and spend time in areas that provide self-actualization.

I'm trying to understand what it is about me that people hate so much. I am very friendly. Why do people feel the need to disrespect me?

I will be a loner for life! This sucks!!

I'm so depressed, this isn't right.
 

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Don't try to understand. Don't care. It's your caring about it so much that oozes out of you at all times and makes people uncomfortable. Indifference will be your greatest helper.

Stop degrading yourself, too, people will see that you consider yourself a loser hiding behind your eyes. They respond to it appropriately. It's self-fulfilling prophecy.

SERIOUSLY, read some self-help material, listen to some talks, if you can't get into it, get a therapist for real.
 

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I am considering confronting my Soccer Team about this and asking them why I don't receive any credit for scoring the game winning goal, and why no one invited me out for drinks after.

but that could make things awkward whenever I go to practice or games.

but im thinking who cares if I make things awkward, I don't care.
 

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TheLoner said:
I am considering confronting my Soccer Team about this and asking me why I don't receive any credit for scoring the game winning goal, and why no one invited me out for drinks after.

but that could make things awkward whenever I go to practice or games.
If you're not a troll, doing this will destroy whatever little piece of respect for you they have left. Fvck them, and get some new friends. Also, you need to stop caring so much what people think about you.
 

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TheLoner said:
On facebook, they distinctly left me out on giving Props.

Not even one mention of me.

They said: congratulations to Bob, Sarah, Matt, ****, etc
on a game well played, we won 3-2!!! Everyone played hard
and we will see you all at the next game.

Why do people do this? Am I pariah of some sort?

And then on Facebook I see pictures of the team going out
for drinks and stuff after the game and no one invited me!

This lack of acknowleding my existence is intention, malicious,
and devious. They are trying to break my spirit.


So lonely.
You can quit trolling now.
Or, do you even talk to them?
When I went to an interview yesterday, there was a group of people waiting as well at a table, they were all sitting there bored, so I struck up a conversation.
You've got to throw yourself out there.
But, maybe you are just a troll?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Read the bible. Apply to life. Stop letting everything bother you and being so depressed. If you aren't a troll that is
 

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nroug7 said:
You can quit trolling now.
Or, do you even talk to them?
When I went to an interview yesterday, there was a group of people waiting as well at a table, they were all sitting there bored, so I struck up a conversation.
You've got to throw yourself out there.
But, maybe you are just a troll?

What is your facebook? I will add you and show you what I am talking about. Literally everyone is getting tagged and high-fived and I am excluded from all the fun and social activity.

I will prove it to you, I am not kidding, I have no friends. You can add me on facebook.

If I had friends, I would not be here whining, I would be having the time of my life.

There's many lonely people in the world, I am sure I am not the only one.

What usually happens to these lonely people?
 

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I've gone through stuff like this before. Best is to just leave and find a different club imo.
 

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OP: Have you read these?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926 (Kill your desperation)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16775 (How To Be Happy)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16903 (Be a Man)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16113 (feeling down about your love life?)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16316 ( That what you think of yourself is EXACTLY what you are)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=37717 (becoming magnetic)

Read those .. then come back here and ask us some questions. Infact .. you should apply all that you read in those and take it to heart. Stop letting other peoples opinions bring you down.

Epi

EDIT (you should also change your screen name .. its depressing)
 

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op wats your facebook? I want to confirm that this is really real. this sounds to fvcked tup to be true.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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