"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I scared a "highly interested" chick. Need help in 9 HOURS! FAST!

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AsianPlayboy

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You should have already upped the physical kino and kissed her.

As it is, she's probably unsure of your intentions, if you're shy or simply uninterested in her as a non-platonic partner.

Meet up with her, start to study, then stop, put everything down, have her put everything down, look into her eyes, pause for 3 seconds, and then kiss her.

Otherwise, stop jerking off.
 

siph

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first of all relax

second of all, dont push her. start talking to other girls, youv given this soo much thought you wont be able to hide it for much longer. the best way to appear relaxed is to be relaxed. find another girl but keep in touch with this one. i see girls i nexted from 2 yrs ago when i knew i had screwed something up and they still try to get me to hang out, just relax it and make sure you give off the right impression.
 

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MAKE HER MISS YOU !!!!!!! Come on man relax and give her some space. MAke her realize your the best thing that happen. Don't reply to e-mail right away. Wait a while like some hrs or even a day. Make her wait MAN !!!!!!!! Watch her body language and remember womenese for mind games. Kino her when you sit next to her lean back !!!! and spread your legs to show your relax. Don't be up all against her. Make sure you smell good when around her. Women love that. Good luck
 

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Next time don't write so many useless details that make the post too long to read, and maybe a little less confusing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So pimp its scary

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"It's not about the woman, it's about the skill."

If you scared her at first, you just may have botched it... not a problem... there are likely 100's of thousands of other women in your city

Go hit on another few women before you go back out with this girl...
 
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