"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Say Hella Stupid ****! Help

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I was hanging with my friends, and i was getting pushed around by them. I was so left out cause i couldn't say anything funny. I kept trying, and not trying, and it never worked out. Then we saw some HB's that i knew and wanted to hang with me. So i was sitting with them talking, and i ****ed up and said something hella dumb towards the end of the conversation about my best friend.
Me: He respects you, but the reason is disclosed.
HB7: excuse me?
Me: He thinks u have a nice ass
HB7 and HB 7#2 yell at my best friend and we all run like the wind outta there

....... OK I NEED HELP I AM SUCH A ****ING DUMB ASS. Getting pushed around by best friends, and ****ing up around girls. I dont think confidence, and charisma is gonna fix my problem. I need special help.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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It's quite simple really... you're a girl.

May i suggest a sex change operation?
 
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It's ok, it' not really your fault. Those girls were just too *****y to see the joke.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Monster said:
It's ok, it' not really your fault. Those girls were just too *****y to see the joke.
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That's just an example i say way dumber things.
 
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What the hell happened to all the real DJs..?
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i don't know wtf you mean by that, but I don't think I ever claimed to be a DJ. I'm just an rAFC
 
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Obsidian said:
i don't know wtf you mean by that, but I don't think I ever claimed to be a DJ. I'm just an rAFC
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Just sayin how not a lot of good advice is getting given these days...

I thought you were a DJ.
 
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well his post is so comical..."I say stupid stuff -- HELP ME." There's not a whole lot you can do with that.

I guess if we're looking for serious advice for the op, I'd say to think a little more before talking. (I actually have this problem myself sometimes.) It usually is better to just listen more than to talk foolishly.

That, and just practice. And watch comedies and stuff to help get funnier.

Telling a girl that she has a nice ass isn't the worst thing you can do. In most cases, it will come off as chumpish, but you have to learn how to interact better mainly through experience. You're only 15, for heaven's sake. I wish I'd known about this site at 15.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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and when you say think a little that never works, because i cant think fast enough, and it would be akward if there was a long pause after they say something
 
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