"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was hanging with my friends, and i was getting pushed around by them. I was so left out cause i couldn't say anything funny. I kept trying, and not trying, and it never worked out. Then we saw some HB's that i knew and wanted to hang with me. So i was sitting with them talking, and i ****ed up and said something hella dumb towards the end of the conversation about my best friend.
Me: He respects you, but the reason is disclosed.
HB7: excuse me?
Me: He thinks u have a nice ass
HB7 and HB 7#2 yell at my best friend and we all run like the wind outta there

....... OK I NEED HELP I AM SUCH A ****ING DUMB ASS. Getting pushed around by best friends, and ****ing up around girls. I dont think confidence, and charisma is gonna fix my problem. I need special help.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's quite simple really... you're a girl.

May i suggest a sex change operation?
 
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It's ok, it' not really your fault. Those girls were just too *****y to see the joke.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Monster said:
It's ok, it' not really your fault. Those girls were just too *****y to see the joke.
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That's just an example i say way dumber things.
 
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What the hell happened to all the real DJs..?
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i don't know wtf you mean by that, but I don't think I ever claimed to be a DJ. I'm just an rAFC
 
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Obsidian said:
i don't know wtf you mean by that, but I don't think I ever claimed to be a DJ. I'm just an rAFC
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Just sayin how not a lot of good advice is getting given these days...

I thought you were a DJ.
 
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well his post is so comical..."I say stupid stuff -- HELP ME." There's not a whole lot you can do with that.

I guess if we're looking for serious advice for the op, I'd say to think a little more before talking. (I actually have this problem myself sometimes.) It usually is better to just listen more than to talk foolishly.

That, and just practice. And watch comedies and stuff to help get funnier.

Telling a girl that she has a nice ass isn't the worst thing you can do. In most cases, it will come off as chumpish, but you have to learn how to interact better mainly through experience. You're only 15, for heaven's sake. I wish I'd known about this site at 15.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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and when you say think a little that never works, because i cant think fast enough, and it would be akward if there was a long pause after they say something
 
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