"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I remained "macho" with her and got laid multiple times....

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Alright, long story short:
HB came to my house and we started kissing on the couch. I tried escallating the moment then...
HB: "where do you see us going?" In other words, where do you see the relationship going?
Amoka: "Well as far as I know, there is nothing special about us . We are just here having great time together".--During Amoka's AFC years, he had been asked the same question to which he responded " I wont you to be my girlfriend". This never got him anywhere. Etheir the grils left him lonely or they started misbehaving and he let go of them. Anyway, I later on gave it another shot--trying to sex her then she responded.
HB: " I don't have sex with guys I just met or guys that are not my boyfriend". I know this girl was very interested but she was just trying to play hard-to-get. I responsed to her statement
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with". She was surprised and amazed at the same time.
HB: "Damn, you're trying to play macho...." ---Folks, couple of minutes later, I got laid.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You were not being Macho, you were being a Great DJ:up: . Believe me, I live in Spain and you do not, I repeat you do not want to be a macho, because a Macho is a useless, lazy, stupid, selfish piece of s**t.
Keep up the good work.
 

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"I don't date girls that I have not slept with".

And for the most part...neither do I.

LOL.

Good job by the way!
 

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Troops, you don't understand. This girl has a history of rejecting people. Namely the AFCs. Not until after fvcking her did she tell me she is always in a quagmire when it comes to guys. According to her, although she might "like a guy", she found it difficult showing her love towards the guy because she might appear to "cheap and easy". Then again she finds it difficult to love a guy who appeared towards her strongly. Fellas, I learned a lot from the conversation I had with her.....
 

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amoka said:
Troops, you don't understand. This girl has a history of rejecting people. Namely the AFCs. Not until after fvcking her did she tell me she is always in a quagmire when it comes to guys. According to her, although she might "like a guy", she found it difficult showing her love towards the guy because she might appear to "cheap and easy". Then again she finds it difficult to love a guy who appeared towards her strongly. Fellas, I learned a lot from the conversation I had with her.....

Reading this convo, I learned something too...and it is a little scary: The "L" word coming from her mouth.

You did great. And I mean that! But be careful. I can tell you from experience.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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amoka said:
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with".
:up: :up: :D...gangsta....fa realz....Do what U do playboy....thats da biznezz....
 

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"I don't date girls I haven't slept with"

That is fabulous.....I would think that one would need to use it only in the right situation...it could be taken the wrong way by a woman...then again I think it is such a powerful line to use in that situation. I commend you.
 

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Kings_royalty said:
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with".

Sorry bro, i have to steal that line from you. :yes:
You can take it but just be careful when to say it....lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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amoka said:
Alright, long story short:
HB came to my house and we started kissing on the couch. I tried escallating the moment then...
HB: "where do you see us going?" In other words, where do you see the relationship going?
Amoka: "Well as far as I know, there is nothing special about us . We are just here having great time together".--During Amoka's AFC years, he had been asked the same question to which he responded " I wont you to be my girlfriend". This never got him anywhere. Etheir the grils left him lonely or they started misbehaving and he let go of them. Anyway, I later on gave it another shot--trying to sex her then she responded.
HB: " I don't have sex with guys I just met or guys that are not my boyfriend". I know this girl was very interested but she was just trying to play hard-to-get. I responsed to her statement
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with". She was surprised and amazed at the same time.
HB: "Damn, you're trying to play macho...." ---Folks, couple of minutes later, I got laid.
All during the same night?

And I didn't quite understand her comment regarding being easy and cheap...isn't that what she was? And also she says she can't like a guy who comes strong on her? And yet you did and she fell for it?

Eh?
 

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Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with".

I have to field test this one. LOL
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Paradox said:
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with".
Stole this. Used it. Totally Scored Like a Mutha! :up:

Yup.
 
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