"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I remained "macho" with her and got laid multiple times....

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Alright, long story short:
HB came to my house and we started kissing on the couch. I tried escallating the moment then...
HB: "where do you see us going?" In other words, where do you see the relationship going?
Amoka: "Well as far as I know, there is nothing special about us . We are just here having great time together".--During Amoka's AFC years, he had been asked the same question to which he responded " I wont you to be my girlfriend". This never got him anywhere. Etheir the grils left him lonely or they started misbehaving and he let go of them. Anyway, I later on gave it another shot--trying to sex her then she responded.
HB: " I don't have sex with guys I just met or guys that are not my boyfriend". I know this girl was very interested but she was just trying to play hard-to-get. I responsed to her statement
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with". She was surprised and amazed at the same time.
HB: "Damn, you're trying to play macho...." ---Folks, couple of minutes later, I got laid.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You were not being Macho, you were being a Great DJ:up: . Believe me, I live in Spain and you do not, I repeat you do not want to be a macho, because a Macho is a useless, lazy, stupid, selfish piece of s**t.
Keep up the good work.
 
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"I don't date girls that I have not slept with".

And for the most part...neither do I.

LOL.

Good job by the way!
 
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Troops, you don't understand. This girl has a history of rejecting people. Namely the AFCs. Not until after fvcking her did she tell me she is always in a quagmire when it comes to guys. According to her, although she might "like a guy", she found it difficult showing her love towards the guy because she might appear to "cheap and easy". Then again she finds it difficult to love a guy who appeared towards her strongly. Fellas, I learned a lot from the conversation I had with her.....
 
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amoka said:
Troops, you don't understand. This girl has a history of rejecting people. Namely the AFCs. Not until after fvcking her did she tell me she is always in a quagmire when it comes to guys. According to her, although she might "like a guy", she found it difficult showing her love towards the guy because she might appear to "cheap and easy". Then again she finds it difficult to love a guy who appeared towards her strongly. Fellas, I learned a lot from the conversation I had with her.....
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Reading this convo, I learned something too...and it is a little scary: The "L" word coming from her mouth.

You did great. And I mean that! But be careful. I can tell you from experience.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amoka said:
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with".
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:up: :up: :D...gangsta....fa realz....Do what U do playboy....thats da biznezz....
 
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"I don't date girls I haven't slept with"

That is fabulous.....I would think that one would need to use it only in the right situation...it could be taken the wrong way by a woman...then again I think it is such a powerful line to use in that situation. I commend you.
 
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Kings_royalty said:
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with".

Sorry bro, i have to steal that line from you. :yes:
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You can take it but just be careful when to say it....lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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amoka said:
Alright, long story short:
HB came to my house and we started kissing on the couch. I tried escallating the moment then...
HB: "where do you see us going?" In other words, where do you see the relationship going?
Amoka: "Well as far as I know, there is nothing special about us . We are just here having great time together".--During Amoka's AFC years, he had been asked the same question to which he responded " I wont you to be my girlfriend". This never got him anywhere. Etheir the grils left him lonely or they started misbehaving and he let go of them. Anyway, I later on gave it another shot--trying to sex her then she responded.
HB: " I don't have sex with guys I just met or guys that are not my boyfriend". I know this girl was very interested but she was just trying to play hard-to-get. I responsed to her statement
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with". She was surprised and amazed at the same time.
HB: "Damn, you're trying to play macho...." ---Folks, couple of minutes later, I got laid.
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All during the same night?

And I didn't quite understand her comment regarding being easy and cheap...isn't that what she was? And also she says she can't like a guy who comes strong on her? And yet you did and she fell for it?

Eh?
 
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Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with".

I have to field test this one. LOL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Paradox said:
Amoka: "I don't date girls that I have not slept with".
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Stole this. Used it. Totally Scored Like a Mutha! :up:

Yup.
 
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