"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok yea so there's this girl at the bus stop and i see her every day when i walk to to school, but we don't go to the same school i jus walk by that bus stop. then during classes i keep thinkin about her, she's always on my mind. i really wonna ask her out but i have no clue how to do it because we don't know each other and i dont' even know her name.

i was thinkin of sayin something like

hey my name is xGizmoz(not real) and i know we don't know each other but everytime i see u i can't get u out of my mind, so i was wondering if i can buy you lunch/dinner or w/e.

sounds pretty lame....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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xGizmoz said:
ok yea so there's this girl at the bus stop and i see her every day when i walk to to school, but we don't go to the same school i jus walk by that bus stop. then during classes i keep thinkin about her, she's always on my mind. i really wonna ask her out but i have no clue how to do it because we don't know each other and i dont' even know her name.

i was thinkin of sayin something like

hey my name is xGizmoz(not real) and i know we don't know each other but everytime i see u i can't get u out of my mind, so i was wondering if i can buy you lunch/dinner or w/e.

sounds pretty lame....
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play it cool son...

dont say 'we dont know each other' and 'i cant get u out of my mind'

just drop that **** unless you wanna make her feel uncomfortable...

when you see her at the bus stop, jus talk to her like a normal person would..and then ask her out:rock:
 
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observe her, and see if she wears anything or has any habits that are noteworthy, then comment on it.

hair, shoes, eyes, clothes, the way she sits, whatever, learn to be observant.
also learn to realise when she is getting uncomfortable!!!

its really quite simple: "hi, im XYZ, which school do you go to/do you have smelly teenagers with big braces at your school. ha ha us too, dont you love it when they....."
something like that.

seriously, striking up convo isn't that hard!
 
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