Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I broke down at night and I've done nothing wrong, I said I may go to the police again regarding the cousin.


Why is she saying let's get all the family involved (so, the cousin was allowed to bully, abuse me for years? They allowed it), I don't really need to talk to him.

She says where is the proof.


-she never spoke to me once between 2005-2012 and reacted angrily


-even after that she reacted angrily


-she put me down too much for years


-bossed me and my father about on Saturdays


-she lied, she knows about the cousins behaviour and knows what he is like, she keeps quiet


-she does twist things and lies


-tells nothing to me ever, NOTHING


-she tells info to them about me when they sneakily ask


-she said before why do I want to know when I ask what is she watching


-she acts like Hitler, I cannot win an argument with her


-she wrongly said "don't kick off and cause trouble" how do I?

-she tells them info in a secret when they ask behind my back


-why doesn't she say nothing to the cousin, why doesn't she stand up to me, she didn't listen, is she going to save me

I'm a controlled person, she must agree to another person and listen to others.

Maybe she wants to fit in.

That cousin will do it again, she already has denied how he has behaved, she says "let's look at the proof".

I hope you can say she's a narcissist.

I think she's controlling things.

All I can say is, she knows what he is like, she denied his behaviour, she was there when he insulted others, that cousin so on, so forth. He's threatened her, I seen it, she acted like a drama queen and denied it in the past.

She's the one who didn't say nothing to him and looks like she doesn't care about me. It takes her so long to admit what he's like.

Remember, she said nothing and did not stand up to me. She said nothing, she couldn't care less who I got treated. She said nothing. Thus not standing up to her own brother.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is like the third thread you’ve written about the same thing, why not stick to one thread?
 

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This is like the third thread you’ve written about the same thing, why not stick to one thread?
Sorry, I just wish to know, in your opinion, my sister's attitude towards this.

Why would she be friends with a bully and an abuser. Someone said it looks like she doesn't care, she does it to fit in. I know she knows how he behaved.

She continues to say let's see the proof.

She taking away my power and dignity.

What's next, agree to what an uncle said with some proposal for a women?

He can easily fight back. I don't understand.

There is a chance of big success, she can take it away.
 

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You need to read post three.

She obviously isn't telling the whole truth about my life, she doesnt know me.
 
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