"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I really need help

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I broke down at night and I've done nothing wrong, I said I may go to the police again regarding the cousin.


Why is she saying let's get all the family involved (so, the cousin was allowed to bully, abuse me for years? They allowed it), I don't really need to talk to him.

She says where is the proof.


-she never spoke to me once between 2005-2012 and reacted angrily


-even after that she reacted angrily


-she put me down too much for years


-bossed me and my father about on Saturdays


-she lied, she knows about the cousins behaviour and knows what he is like, she keeps quiet


-she does twist things and lies


-tells nothing to me ever, NOTHING


-she tells info to them about me when they sneakily ask


-she said before why do I want to know when I ask what is she watching


-she acts like Hitler, I cannot win an argument with her


-she wrongly said "don't kick off and cause trouble" how do I?

-she tells them info in a secret when they ask behind my back


-why doesn't she say nothing to the cousin, why doesn't she stand up to me, she didn't listen, is she going to save me

I'm a controlled person, she must agree to another person and listen to others.

Maybe she wants to fit in.

That cousin will do it again, she already has denied how he has behaved, she says "let's look at the proof".

I hope you can say she's a narcissist.

I think she's controlling things.

All I can say is, she knows what he is like, she denied his behaviour, she was there when he insulted others, that cousin so on, so forth. He's threatened her, I seen it, she acted like a drama queen and denied it in the past.

She's the one who didn't say nothing to him and looks like she doesn't care about me. It takes her so long to admit what he's like.

Remember, she said nothing and did not stand up to me. She said nothing, she couldn't care less who I got treated. She said nothing. Thus not standing up to her own brother.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is like the third thread you’ve written about the same thing, why not stick to one thread?
 

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This is like the third thread you’ve written about the same thing, why not stick to one thread?
Sorry, I just wish to know, in your opinion, my sister's attitude towards this.

Why would she be friends with a bully and an abuser. Someone said it looks like she doesn't care, she does it to fit in. I know she knows how he behaved.

She continues to say let's see the proof.

She taking away my power and dignity.

What's next, agree to what an uncle said with some proposal for a women?

He can easily fight back. I don't understand.

There is a chance of big success, she can take it away.
 

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You need to read post three.

She obviously isn't telling the whole truth about my life, she doesnt know me.
 
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