"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Really Love This Girl So I'm Following Her Everywhere.. Hoping For A Chance

stuartSan

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Now that I've got your attention..

How are you guys? Its been a looong time.. sorry I had to just disappear like that.. PC/Internet got screwed and I was in the middle of a major life rehauling. Everythings fine now.. fortunately.

The board seems to be the same, lol! The same obvious questions, the same 'which is better' debates.. and I realise the Fight Club topic doesn't ever go away from this board, does it? Well I guess some things never change.

Nice to be back. Missed the boards. Just dropping a hi to all of you oldtimers. Seeya!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Julian

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whats up bro. welcome back. You didnt miss anything.
 

Eternal

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I always wondered what happend to stuartSan...Really, it kept me up at nights...

Just kidding. Welcome back though. :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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penkitten

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so you arent stalking anyone? it was a mean ploy to get us here??
*cough* AW *cough*

ok well you had us all at hello hahaha
 

defiancy

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I was about to attack this thread because of the title haha, but welcome back
 
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