"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I really like her, she lives back home, but I'll be back home for x-mas -- any sugg.?

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Ok, there's this girl which I like who lives back home (I'm currently in the US and she lives in another country). We talk through MSN once in a while. Sometimes I start the convo, sometimes she does. We don't really talk much, but we flirt and she tells me that she wants to go out with me when I get back. I've called her on the phone once, for her b-day and I also sent her an e-card. I've also told her that I like her once.

I know it's hard to have a relationship from far away, but I'd like to spend time with her when I go back home (I'll be there for a month), take her to the beach, etc, etc.. you guys know what I mean.

I just don't know how to handle things right now. How often should I talk to her through MSN? What should I talk about? Should I wait for her to message me? Should I call her every once in a while? Is there anything I should do to build up for my arrival? Should I get her a gift?

I'd appreciate your comments, thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women are like a carpet,lay them right the first them and you can walk all over them forever.
 
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I have alot of friends at uni who are in ldrs,the ones that survived are where the girl had high IL
 
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