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I really like her, she lives back home, but I'll be back home for x-mas -- any sugg.?

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Ok, there's this girl which I like who lives back home (I'm currently in the US and she lives in another country). We talk through MSN once in a while. Sometimes I start the convo, sometimes she does. We don't really talk much, but we flirt and she tells me that she wants to go out with me when I get back. I've called her on the phone once, for her b-day and I also sent her an e-card. I've also told her that I like her once.

I know it's hard to have a relationship from far away, but I'd like to spend time with her when I go back home (I'll be there for a month), take her to the beach, etc, etc.. you guys know what I mean.

I just don't know how to handle things right now. How often should I talk to her through MSN? What should I talk about? Should I wait for her to message me? Should I call her every once in a while? Is there anything I should do to build up for my arrival? Should I get her a gift?

I'd appreciate your comments, thanks.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women are like a carpet,lay them right the first them and you can walk all over them forever.
 

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I have alot of friends at uni who are in ldrs,the ones that survived are where the girl had high IL
 
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