"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I really like her, she lives back home, but I'll be back home for x-mas -- any sugg.?

Indigo

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Ok, there's this girl which I like who lives back home (I'm currently in the US and she lives in another country). We talk through MSN once in a while. Sometimes I start the convo, sometimes she does. We don't really talk much, but we flirt and she tells me that she wants to go out with me when I get back. I've called her on the phone once, for her b-day and I also sent her an e-card. I've also told her that I like her once.

I know it's hard to have a relationship from far away, but I'd like to spend time with her when I go back home (I'll be there for a month), take her to the beach, etc, etc.. you guys know what I mean.

I just don't know how to handle things right now. How often should I talk to her through MSN? What should I talk about? Should I wait for her to message me? Should I call her every once in a while? Is there anything I should do to build up for my arrival? Should I get her a gift?

I'd appreciate your comments, thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Women are like a carpet,lay them right the first them and you can walk all over them forever.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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I have alot of friends at uni who are in ldrs,the ones that survived are where the girl had high IL
 
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