Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I really don't know what forum to post this in, but... I have a problem.

Skating Penguin

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I don't know what could have caused it, but it seems that no women is capable of making me come during sex. We can just go at it for like 30 minutes and be tired to death, but I can't come until I jack off myself. She can give me head all she wants and I can barely feel her at all, like if I have no sensibility or something. I have no problem making the girl come, but I'd like to be able to come with her once in a while and not have to finish by myself like a million years later or something... :(

I don't know, maybe it's a disease or something? I don't think it's normal that a guy always come a long time after the girls. I'm a bit worried.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Circumcised, uncircumcised? Circumcised guys lose quite a bit of sensitivity due to the fact that the foreskin isn't there to protect the glans. Constant friction with underwear causes your penis to be less sensitive. There a some things you can do to counteract that. Google it and you should find some stuff.

Other things that I can think of:

Do you jerk off often?

Do you watch a lot of porn, thus making an unrealistic impression of what a woman is? Do you find yourself not turned on by your woman(women)?

Do you have an emotional connection with your woman? Or just having a lot of ONS?
 

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Originally posted by italostud
Circumcised, uncircumcised? Circumcised guys lose quite a bit of sensitivity due to the fact that the foreskin isn't there to protect the glans. Constant friction with underwear causes your penis to be less sensitive. There a some things you can do to counteract that. Google it and you should find some stuff.

Other things that I can think of:

Do you jerk off often?

Do you watch a lot of porn, thus making an unrealistic impression of what a woman is? Do you find yourself not turned on by your woman(women)?

Do you have an emotional connection with your woman? Or just having a lot of ONS?
I'm uncut, jerk off about a couple of times a week and don't watch porn regularly (once in a while, but that's it).

You're right about the ONS thing, though. Maybe that's part of the problem... it takes me a long time for me to start being emotionally attached to someone. When I do, I feel like I'm ready to die for her... but for the first few months I'm with someone I somehow couldn't care less, maybe because I don't trust her yet. I don't know, I'm a weird guy.

I think that my problem is more medical then mental though. Maybe I'm wrong.
 

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Originally posted by Skating Penguin
I'm uncut, jerk off about a couple of times a week and don't watch porn regularly (once in a while, but that's it).

You're right about the ONS thing, though. Maybe that's part of the problem... it takes me a long time for me to start being emotionally attached to someone. When I do, I feel like I'm ready to die for her... but for the first few months I'm with someone I somehow couldn't care less, maybe because I don't trust her yet. I don't know, I'm a weird guy.

I think that my problem is more medical then mental though. Maybe I'm wrong.

YOU'RE GAY
 

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a small tip..

Originally posted by jprjrjr
YOU'RE GAY
lol..... how helpfull:rolleyes:

Skating Penguin: Try not whacking off for like a week or 2, then have sex with a girl and see if that helps.;)


Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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