"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I really don't know what forum to post this in, but... I have a problem.

Skating Penguin

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I don't know what could have caused it, but it seems that no women is capable of making me come during sex. We can just go at it for like 30 minutes and be tired to death, but I can't come until I jack off myself. She can give me head all she wants and I can barely feel her at all, like if I have no sensibility or something. I have no problem making the girl come, but I'd like to be able to come with her once in a while and not have to finish by myself like a million years later or something... :(

I don't know, maybe it's a disease or something? I don't think it's normal that a guy always come a long time after the girls. I'm a bit worried.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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italostud

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Circumcised, uncircumcised? Circumcised guys lose quite a bit of sensitivity due to the fact that the foreskin isn't there to protect the glans. Constant friction with underwear causes your penis to be less sensitive. There a some things you can do to counteract that. Google it and you should find some stuff.

Other things that I can think of:

Do you jerk off often?

Do you watch a lot of porn, thus making an unrealistic impression of what a woman is? Do you find yourself not turned on by your woman(women)?

Do you have an emotional connection with your woman? Or just having a lot of ONS?
 

Skating Penguin

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Originally posted by italostud
Circumcised, uncircumcised? Circumcised guys lose quite a bit of sensitivity due to the fact that the foreskin isn't there to protect the glans. Constant friction with underwear causes your penis to be less sensitive. There a some things you can do to counteract that. Google it and you should find some stuff.

Other things that I can think of:

Do you jerk off often?

Do you watch a lot of porn, thus making an unrealistic impression of what a woman is? Do you find yourself not turned on by your woman(women)?

Do you have an emotional connection with your woman? Or just having a lot of ONS?
I'm uncut, jerk off about a couple of times a week and don't watch porn regularly (once in a while, but that's it).

You're right about the ONS thing, though. Maybe that's part of the problem... it takes me a long time for me to start being emotionally attached to someone. When I do, I feel like I'm ready to die for her... but for the first few months I'm with someone I somehow couldn't care less, maybe because I don't trust her yet. I don't know, I'm a weird guy.

I think that my problem is more medical then mental though. Maybe I'm wrong.
 

jprjrjr

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Originally posted by Skating Penguin
I'm uncut, jerk off about a couple of times a week and don't watch porn regularly (once in a while, but that's it).

You're right about the ONS thing, though. Maybe that's part of the problem... it takes me a long time for me to start being emotionally attached to someone. When I do, I feel like I'm ready to die for her... but for the first few months I'm with someone I somehow couldn't care less, maybe because I don't trust her yet. I don't know, I'm a weird guy.

I think that my problem is more medical then mental though. Maybe I'm wrong.

YOU'RE GAY
 

Climax

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a small tip..

Originally posted by jprjrjr
YOU'RE GAY
lol..... how helpfull:rolleyes:

Skating Penguin: Try not whacking off for like a week or 2, then have sex with a girl and see if that helps.;)


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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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