"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I really don't know what forum to post this in, but... I have a problem.

Skating Penguin

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I don't know what could have caused it, but it seems that no women is capable of making me come during sex. We can just go at it for like 30 minutes and be tired to death, but I can't come until I jack off myself. She can give me head all she wants and I can barely feel her at all, like if I have no sensibility or something. I have no problem making the girl come, but I'd like to be able to come with her once in a while and not have to finish by myself like a million years later or something... :(

I don't know, maybe it's a disease or something? I don't think it's normal that a guy always come a long time after the girls. I'm a bit worried.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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italostud

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Circumcised, uncircumcised? Circumcised guys lose quite a bit of sensitivity due to the fact that the foreskin isn't there to protect the glans. Constant friction with underwear causes your penis to be less sensitive. There a some things you can do to counteract that. Google it and you should find some stuff.

Other things that I can think of:

Do you jerk off often?

Do you watch a lot of porn, thus making an unrealistic impression of what a woman is? Do you find yourself not turned on by your woman(women)?

Do you have an emotional connection with your woman? Or just having a lot of ONS?
 

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Originally posted by italostud
Circumcised, uncircumcised? Circumcised guys lose quite a bit of sensitivity due to the fact that the foreskin isn't there to protect the glans. Constant friction with underwear causes your penis to be less sensitive. There a some things you can do to counteract that. Google it and you should find some stuff.

Other things that I can think of:

Do you jerk off often?

Do you watch a lot of porn, thus making an unrealistic impression of what a woman is? Do you find yourself not turned on by your woman(women)?

Do you have an emotional connection with your woman? Or just having a lot of ONS?
I'm uncut, jerk off about a couple of times a week and don't watch porn regularly (once in a while, but that's it).

You're right about the ONS thing, though. Maybe that's part of the problem... it takes me a long time for me to start being emotionally attached to someone. When I do, I feel like I'm ready to die for her... but for the first few months I'm with someone I somehow couldn't care less, maybe because I don't trust her yet. I don't know, I'm a weird guy.

I think that my problem is more medical then mental though. Maybe I'm wrong.
 

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Originally posted by Skating Penguin
I'm uncut, jerk off about a couple of times a week and don't watch porn regularly (once in a while, but that's it).

You're right about the ONS thing, though. Maybe that's part of the problem... it takes me a long time for me to start being emotionally attached to someone. When I do, I feel like I'm ready to die for her... but for the first few months I'm with someone I somehow couldn't care less, maybe because I don't trust her yet. I don't know, I'm a weird guy.

I think that my problem is more medical then mental though. Maybe I'm wrong.

YOU'RE GAY
 

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a small tip..

Originally posted by jprjrjr
YOU'RE GAY
lol..... how helpfull:rolleyes:

Skating Penguin: Try not whacking off for like a week or 2, then have sex with a girl and see if that helps.;)


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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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