"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I realized how little time we have

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Today i realized how little time we have. Today i woke up with a fever, so i went to my pediatrician and she prescribed Mortin to bring down my fever. I was really dizzy, and i waited at the pharmacy for 30 minutes until i finally got it.

A woman sitting next to me, she was like in her 70's, was waiting for like 5 different types of prescribed drugs. I was not feeling well at all. but i saw her left arm, it had a cast on it. Here i am feeling horrible cause of the fever, but i ask, "hey lady, what happened to your arm". She said she fell, breaking her arm and fracturing the hip. She said she just got out of the hospital after 3 surgeories.

Damn. thats when i realized that when you are old, you will always feel sick and fragile, like what i felt with the fever but hers is PERMANENT. So whats up with ppl dissing themselves saying their lives sucks, putting themselves down, or making exucses not to do things, use your time wisely and enjoy life before your life really starts to suck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sometimes others sacrifice their most essential needs for others.

I can only feel so lucky that elders in my family didn't take a bullet to the chest just because their quality of life has dropped. What I've learned from my elders will be with me my whole life.
 

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It's good that you talked to her about her arm and understood something, but it's not good to focus on the end. Focus on today :) Carpe Diem people, Carpe Diem.
 
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