"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Pulled a 10 and Her Decent Friend at Concert - Pic Per Request

Dante420

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danced with both of them and was getting props from everyone around me who made eye contact, these girls were like 2nd year in college :) got their numbers, already contacted the ugly friend same night (I deflected some attention towards her, stuff like "Your friend gets high quickly don't she") so she'd repeat that to her friend and make her laugh, I think I'll contact the other one in 2 days, I don't think anything will happen with these numbers, any advice on how I should be contacting the 10 in this situation?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alle_Gory

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Dante420 said:
any advice on how I should be contacting the 10 in this situation?
If you really need advice for something this simple, you're not going to get anywhere with this girl.

Do what YOU think is necessary.
 

Dante420

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hit me with a PM and i'll get a link to ya, she dont look as good in the pic as she did but then again it was dark, her body was really nice ass was nice although she wasn't hesitant towards dancing we still made a connection. The reason I'm asking is cause i already contacted the ugly one? ya digggg? the reality of it is, i just got numbers at a concert far away and under the time frame i'm working on it's very unlikely this would work for me, but it never hurts to plant a seed
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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