"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Pulled a 10 and Her Decent Friend at Concert - Pic Per Request

Dante420

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danced with both of them and was getting props from everyone around me who made eye contact, these girls were like 2nd year in college :) got their numbers, already contacted the ugly friend same night (I deflected some attention towards her, stuff like "Your friend gets high quickly don't she") so she'd repeat that to her friend and make her laugh, I think I'll contact the other one in 2 days, I don't think anything will happen with these numbers, any advice on how I should be contacting the 10 in this situation?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dante420 said:
any advice on how I should be contacting the 10 in this situation?
If you really need advice for something this simple, you're not going to get anywhere with this girl.

Do what YOU think is necessary.
 

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hit me with a PM and i'll get a link to ya, she dont look as good in the pic as she did but then again it was dark, her body was really nice ass was nice although she wasn't hesitant towards dancing we still made a connection. The reason I'm asking is cause i already contacted the ugly one? ya digggg? the reality of it is, i just got numbers at a concert far away and under the time frame i'm working on it's very unlikely this would work for me, but it never hurts to plant a seed
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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