ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
A 50 year old guy should not be interested in a 20 year old girl. If he is, there must have been something of an arrested development somewhere along the line.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LOL. So having standards is considered MGTOW now?You are very emotional. And this is a very MGTOW (fyi not red pill) worldview.
Haa. Typical MGTOW-feminist think speak. Twisting people's words against them to suit their own narrative, especially when they can't come up with a counter argument of their own. Again just more emotive nonsensical splutters and crying. Woohoo, 'deep sh!!!!t'. Haa. You do make me laugh, you lot.LOL. So having standards is considered MGTOW now?
Men are in deep sh*t if this is the thinking of today...
You're the only one twisting words. You are also the only angry one lol.Haa. Typical MGTOW-feminist think speak. Twisting people's words against them to suit their own narrative, especially when they can't come up with a counter argument of their own. Again just more emotive nonsensical splutters and crying. Woohoo, 'deep sh!!!!t'. Haa. You do make me laugh, you lot.
You think your list demonstrates applying values, a few superficial 'standards' that you borrow / have been told by some other MGTOW incel keyboard jockey.
This is the internet dude. If your view of women is so overly pessimistic that you go on some pathetic crusade to 'change the woooorld', what the fck does it matter what I think.
All the best for your important mission.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I think there are some guys her who would take exception to what you're saying. But as a 56 year old, I'll tell you my take on it:A 50 year old guy should not be interested in a 20 year old girl. If he is, there must have been something of an arrested development somewhere along the line.![]()
What's funny is he thinks there will multiple wives to be had when he essentially discards over half the female population by boycotting overweight women, 35 yrs + women, and single moms. That leaves about a fraction of women left and a whole lot of thirsty men so in reality it would be more likely there would be multiple husbands not wives.So basically, for this to work, every guy who can't hook up with those young, attractive, skinny girls (or just likes bigger women for whatever reason) would basically have to stop having sex with the women they can get. All with the hopes that obese women who put forth no effort today to lose weight to land a quality man will suddenly find the inspiration to lose weight to land a quality man tomorrow.... because men who cannot land quality women themselves are no longer having sex with them?
Or...they'll just start blowing their bosses at the age of 34 for that big raise, if they aren't already independent and making enough money to support themselves, then move out, file for divorce and come back looking for alimony and child support because they know that it will be their last chance to get anything out of a man. Kind of like a 29 year old running back who knows he doesn't have much left in the tank, so looks for that huge payday contract that will set him up for life.
Multiple wives who are miserable because they are essentially forced to deal with a situation they don't truly want to, due to the desperation of circumstances and lack of choice. Why stop at 1 disgruntled wife when you can have 3 of them? Sounds pleasantly wonderful.
What? Child support has nothing to do with whether a child is born in or out of wedlock. It is based on who has custody. You can be married 15 years and have 3 kids with that faithful, pretty, little wife of yours and still end up paying child support for all 3 of them if she gets custody in divorce, regardless of who files for that divorce.
All the desperate guys here with low standards are revealing themselves lol.What's funny is he thinks there will multiple wives to be had when he essentially discards over half the female population by boycotting overweight women, 35 yrs + women, and single moms. That leaves about a fraction of women left and a whole lot of thirsty men so in reality it would be more likely there would be multiple husbands not wives.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm not a guy, and in the context of multiple wives it's true.All the desperate guys here with low standards are revealing themselves lol.
I'm all for a girlcott.All the desperate guys here with low standards are revealing themselves lol.
I think you're reading into things too much.Ha. The only thing being revealed here is that the guy who thinks he has a global solution also thinks child support is just for dudes who knock up chicks out of wedlock.
What's next? How banning women who don't swallow will lead to peace in the Middle East?
I see constant complaints here from guys who say that the "betas" are ruining women because they are putting them on pedestals, svcking up to them, giving them likes on Facebook, giving them money, and basically doing whatever they want. If you shrink the female dating pool of "undesirables", how much worse is that situation going to get? Seems to me the "AFCs" will ramp up their "beta game" to double what it was before, or more.Let's say your undesirable women disappeared. Sure, that leaves only woman you want to date, with millions more men now competing for them, those 'desperate' men with ' no standards' who settled for women you don't want and hence were not in your way of getting your desired women.
By far the dumbest boycott proposal in the history of SS...F*ck MGTOW. I have a much better idea.
All men WORLDWIDE need to boycott dating the following women:
*Obese
*Anyone over 35
*Single Mothers
Word on the street is women are more picky today than ever:
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/are-men-at-a-disadvantage-in-modern-dating/
If all men boycott the types of women I listed, it will balance things out in the favor or men. Here is why:
* Fat women will not exist or they will be very rare. Only 1% of the population is genetically predisposed to obesity.
* Women will become more loyal and family oriented because they know once they pass 35 the game is over.
*Men will be able to have multiple wives
*Child support will never happen because women will only get pregnant in marriage. Only MEN will initiate divorces which will basically destroy a woman's life (the opposite of what happens today)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The other thing is even if the above is true, it's still the women who will lose out in the end. They'll have all these sub-par orbiters giving them validation, but they'll never find the guys they desire or they'll mistakenly gloss over them thinking they can 'do better'. Suddenly they'll find their a decade older and their pool of available options has got even smaller.I see constant complaints here from guys who say that the "betas" are ruining women because they are putting them on pedestals, svcking up to them, giving them likes on Facebook, giving them money, and basically doing whatever they want. If you shrink the female dating pool of "undesirables", how much worse is that situation going to get? Seems to me the "AFCs" will ramp up their "beta game" to double what it was before, or more.
No, they'll just have less competition. They probably won't be able to get the so-called "alphas", but according to PUA Bro Theory, when women hit the wall at 30, they "settle for a beta" anyway. This wouldn't be any different, they'll just have a bigger pool of betas to choose from.The other thing is even if the above is true, it's still the women who will lose out in the end. They'll have all these sub-par orbiters giving them validation, but they'll never find the guys they desire or they'll mistakenly gloss over them thinking they can 'do better'. Suddenly they'll find their a decade older and their pool of available options has got even smaller.
I imagine they "settle" with their favorite pick...But that's what I mean: What use is it having 1000 orbiters if you're not attracted to any of them?
Only if you have low standards lol.By far the dumbest boycott proposal in the history of SS...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.