"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Propose a boycott

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F*ck MGTOW. I have a much better idea.

All men WORLDWIDE need to boycott dating the following women:

*Obese
*Anyone over 35
*Single Mothers

Word on the street is women are more picky today than ever:
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/are-men-at-a-disadvantage-in-modern-dating/

If all men boycott the types of women I listed, it will balance things out in the favor or men. Here is why:

* Fat women will not exist or they will be very rare. Only 1% of the population is genetically predisposed to obesity.
* Women will become more loyal and family oriented because they know once they pass 35 the game is over.
*Men will be able to have multiple wives
*Child support will never happen because women will only get pregnant in marriage. Only MEN will initiate divorces which will basically destroy a woman's life (the opposite of what happens today)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who Dares Win

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I believe a zero tolerance policy in terms of bullsh1t and bad behaviour will fix 90% of the problems.

She is rude, just stand up and leave with no explanation.

Does she expect you to do all the work and do nothing? withdraw yourself.

She was uncaring and rude toward you but now needs help? pretend you dont see her.

It's really that simple, the same way you throw away a tshirt that dont fit right.
 

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F*ck MGTOW. I have a much better idea.

All men WORLDWIDE need to boycott dating the following women:

*Obese
*Anyone over 35
*Single Mothers

Word on the street is women are more picky today than ever:
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/are-men-at-a-disadvantage-in-modern-dating/

If all men boycott the types of women I listed, it will balance things out in the favor or men. Here is why:

* Fat women will not exist or they will be very rare. Only 1% of the population is genetically predisposed to obesity.
* Women will become more loyal and family oriented because they know once they pass 35 the game is over.
*Men will be able to have multiple wives
*Child support will never happen because women will only get pregnant in marriage. Only MEN will initiate divorces which will basically destroy a woman's life (the opposite of what happens today)
Hum... Goodman Project is a women work ;) (look at the editing team)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Single moms aren't a problem... as long as they are successful and are not looking for a meal ticket. One of the women I'm seeing is a single mom. I have been with God know how many women and this one is one of the best I've ever been with.... she is a solid 9 and comes from a wealthy family, in fact her father's business is a Inc Magazine 1000 company.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Its a great idea, but it will never happen. There are to many guys out there that will bust a nut in anything that has a pulse.
This is the problem. Weak men without an ounce of integrity. Integrity... wholeness... when the rational part is in control of the irrational part... aka good old-fashioned morality.
 

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I believe a zero tolerance policy in terms of bullsh1t and bad behaviour will fix 90% of the problems.

She is rude, just stand up and leave with no explanation.

Does she expect you to do all the work and do nothing? withdraw yourself.

She was uncaring and rude toward you but now needs help? pretend you dont see her.

It's really that simple, the same way you throw away a tshirt that dont fit right.
I wholeheartedly endorse this.

If she does not leave the door wide open, you close the door and walk away.

Your value is commensurate with how much you don't tolerate. Expecting and receiving full deference is the way of a Don Juan.
 

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I would like to make a provision. If she is over 35, she has to do yoga (yoga butts are sexy) or have some sort of workout regimen, be feminine and submissive, look young for her age.
Boom boom, yup luv me sum yoga broads. I've got a 43yr ole yoga plate that has a body of an early 25yr old. 5'7", 120, small C cup, looks 30ish. I actually prefer thicker broads but damn this one is solid, no kids and she can't have any. Bonus! I do agree with what you are throwing down but there are exceptions to the rule. Temp plate for sure but I'll ride that wave til it dies.
 

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With due respect, assuming OP is legit, this is a very superficial list and we don't really need people dictating who we can and can't bang on this kind of level. Some guys like milfs, others like fatties. I banged a bird recently who I assumed was late twenties, maybe 30. Turns out she's 37. Thats nothing to do with me or her or anything else. That's just the way the world spins.

If you're on a mission to heal the world, how about, just don't fck b!tches. Simple.
 

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With due respect, assuming OP is legit, this is a very superficial list and we don't really need people dictating who we can and can't bang on this kind of level. Some guys like milfs, others like fatties. I banged a bird recently who I assumed was late twenties, maybe 30. Turns out she's 37. Thats nothing to do with me or her or anything else. That's just the way the world spins.

If you're on a mission to heal the world, how about, just don't fck b!tches. Simple.
The decline in high quality women is due to men being willing to date anything and everything with a vagina.

Don't want to have standards? Fine. The market will keep getting worse.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The decline in high quality women is due to men being willing to date anything and everything with a vagina.

Don't want to have standards? Fine. The market will keep getting worse.
You are very emotional. And this is a very MGTOW (fyi not red pill) worldview.
 

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I believe a zero tolerance policy in terms of bullsh1t and bad behaviour will fix 90% of the problems.

She is rude, just stand up and leave with no explanation.

Does she expect you to do all the work and do nothing? withdraw yourself.

She was uncaring and rude toward you but now needs help? pretend you dont see her.

It's really that simple, the same way you throw away a tshirt that dont fit right.
Sadly what you're saying than applies to 75% of women where I live. They are rude ****s due to the empowerment of feminism etc
Single moms aren't a problem... as long as they are successful and are not looking for a meal ticket. One of the women I'm seeing is a single mom. I have been with God know how many women and this one is one of the best I've ever been with.... she is a solid 9 and comes from a wealthy family, in fact her father's business is a Inc Magazine 1000 company.
With all due respect Mike, your single mother is an anomaly 95% of single mothers are garbage and not worth the effort to date seriously in my book and my area

Its a great idea, but it will never happen. There are to many guys out there that will bust a nut in anything that has a pulse.
^^^This, the simps are too many and to much. As long as there are simps women will always have a monopoly in the dating game
 

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You are very emotional. And this is a very MGTOW (fyi not red pill) worldview.
In so far as I am a rational man [have rational control over my irrational desires], I will think about our collective prospects besides my individual ones. In doing so, I combine elements of the MGTOW with the red-pill; I'm open to meeting a lot of women, but screen hard, and look to have one of quality [the remnant] gravitate to me.

Be prepared to go your own way [you don't HAVE TO have a woman], but be open to meeting a suitable and worthy one.
 

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In so far as I am a rational man [have rational control over my irrational desires], I will think about our collective prospects besides my individual ones. In doing so, I combine elements of the MGTOW with the red-pill; I'm open to meeting a lot of women, but screen hard, and look to have one of quality [the remnant] gravitate to me.

Be prepared to go your own way [you don't HAVE TO have a woman], but be open to meeting a suitable and worthy one.
OP, among others here, talks of 'the decline in quality' of women and the 'market place'.

For me, the market place hasn't changed, not has the standard of women. When I was in college, let's say 15 years ago, I was still only attracted to, approaching and dating one or maybe two girls in every ten. Despite the social media and internet dating revolutions (things which I know people like the OP love to hold resposible for their own grief), that hasn't changed to this day. I've always had pretty high standards, where I think maybe other guys haven't, and all of a sudden have developed them.

What I think the OP refers to as a 'decline', is actually just an awakening of both sexes, as to the existence of the market place, let alone how to react to and compete in it.

It's like going for a job;

-One, you're not going to be qualified for at least 50% of jobs available,
-And, of the remaining 50%, you're not really going to want 40% of those, despite being qualified or even over-qualified.
-Furthermore, of the 10% of jobs you do get, you'll probably wind up wishing you'd not bothered for 5% of those.

The take home message, focussing on what you don't want is futile. Where focussing on what you do want at least prepares the mind for when it turns up, staring you right in the face.

Otherwise, 80-90% of women are incidental to me personally. Guys like the OP still struggle with their Disney conditioning, thinking their fairy tale princess is hiding around every corner. Hence the overly emotional outlook.
 
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I think this is a bit more age related. There are guys here who are over 50. Those guys are not gonna get a whole bunch of 20 year old girls for different reasons. But when you have guys in their 20s dating women like 40 or 50. I mean, once in a while, for experience, it's fun. They teach you things and sometimes, the sex with them can be as hot as it gets. But besides that...young guys should not be giving many chances to single moms or women in their late thirties.It would make it easier for the about 50 year old guys, too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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