"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I pissed off a girl at work and she made a harassment compliant against me

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1.Uh..Kate Upton isn't really my type.

2. I think her tits are too big
1. You sure you're not gay?

2. What does that even mean. Is that a thing? How can that even be possible? I can't even imagine it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WTF? Are you just dumb? We all have our types. If you like Kate Upton that's up to you.
 

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I've spinned plates and in the end all you're doing is wasting your time. Nothing in learned or built from having short term relationships.
Stop lying to the people. I have a question for the moderators. When a poster has been exposed as either a keyboard jockey or a liar why aren't they immediately banned from the board?

My girl is more on the tall and skinny (almost anorexic) small b tits side.
This is suspect as f*ck. So dude is saying that he's into chicks that are built like prepubescent boys. Ole nasty ass Jerry Sundusky muthaf*cka.

Uh..Kate Upton isn't really my type. Like a runway model.
Who Decided That Models Are Attractive? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/who-decided-that-models-are-attractive.107520/






Where was Ms. Upton when those two photos and the video was taken?
 
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You spend too much time on the internet looking up dumb $hit and you accuse people of being trolls or keyboard jockey. Get real.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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