Ugh.. for some reason i seem to take the CnF a little too far and this one chick was going along with it until she just said i pissed her off and i didnt feel like taking to her the rest of the day. Shes pretty hot by the way, what could i do in this situation? But my more important question is how can i keep a great convo going without overdoing the CnF
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I piss girls off lol
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ummm and what did you say?
Well you can always look at their body language and see how they react to your C&F. If they are laughing their heads off, then you are doing the right thing. But if they are red in the face and actually pissed then tone it down.
It also depends if shes laughing/smiling when she says it or if she has a serioius face and everything.
It also depends if shes laughing/smiling when she says it or if she has a serioius face and everything.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Omg that would have been perfect lol, Ive also been wanted to get her number but i didnt see her over the summer, how could i do this, no were not gonna go out for coffee, thats all i hear and its not helpful to me, i dont take 15 year old girls out to coffee...i just wanna chat with her, how can i get her # without making up some BS...
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War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
The most common mistake men make when they're doing C&F is that they milk it. It's their main arsenal in their seduction, so they often over do it. You should just pull a C&F every now and then. I've realized when I started doing this that the material I was reading mainly applied to super hot pornstar like models you see in the clubs. Most of us are in high school, so we're mainly hitting on high school chicks. The women that those books are describing are the ones that usually get hit on 5 times a day and are super hot. High school girls, even if they are super hot, haven't really reached that stage.
After she gets pissed off say this loud enough for her to hear it
"ya, she digs me"
you have to say it sarcastically though so she knows your having fun.
or
"i know you just want to kiss me"
it works 2 ways in that youre twisting the situation around to bust on her
and
she just might say yea i do or she might answer the "i have a bf" question you didnt want to ask
"ya, she digs me"
you have to say it sarcastically though so she knows your having fun.
or
"i know you just want to kiss me"
it works 2 ways in that youre twisting the situation around to bust on her
and
she just might say yea i do or she might answer the "i have a bf" question you didnt want to ask
Whn using CnF dont do it to try and pick her up, or anything besides makeing the two of you have fun. Its weird no matter how hard you try you cant hide that you are trying to pick her up if you are. I go in no giving two fvcks if she wants my **** or not, or whether im going to give it to her, at least untill it comes to that. You will flow alot better if you arent trying, at all, and if you dont care. And to avoid making the girl angry with your CnF, dont rely on that as your only tool, and always say it with a smirk that shows that ur only teasing.
So go out and have fun, dont worry about getting laid, hooking up, or anything like that just forget it all and b natural and have flow and they will come to you.
BTW does anyone else think its hott when girls get angry?
So go out and have fun, dont worry about getting laid, hooking up, or anything like that just forget it all and b natural and have flow and they will come to you.
BTW does anyone else think its hott when girls get angry?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
so you're just practicing, and you think shes pretty hot 
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im actually gaming 2 girls atm and I continuously piss them off, they still dig me, its nothing bad IMO as long and youre making her emotional bucket swing