"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I opened the gates of hell...

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Hey guys,
Apprentice DJ here.... you can see a post i made a few days ago about the chick not letting me touch her... its called "she won't let me touch her"
its basically me using kino on her but she always drew a line about not letting me give her a massage

anyways...during some time spent together, i said i wanted to get to know her and stuff.... at first she was hard to break, not very open and stuff so we kept on talking about the fact that she had a cold attitude about not letting me massage her and stuff...conversation went on for a few minutes about how or why she was like this so i used the intuitive technique on the website (basically saying that i can see from her actions that she is like this because she's afraid to get hurt or that she's afraid to hurt others by being too close or open to them) then out of nowhere:

she opens herself (intellectually of course) she outpoors all of her bfs and heartbreaks to me.... i mean in that 20 minutes i think i heard all of her relationship problems...EVER.

now.... how should i handle this? is this a good sign cus she feels comfortable and intimate with me or... is it the deadly im so in the friends zone that even Barney doesnt arrive to my ankles?

advice please!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Until you kiss her all this stuff means nothing.
 
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I need advice, not someone stating me the obvious.

How should i play this now?
 
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As far as she is concerned, you do not have a penis. Move on.
 
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I don't kiss a girl until she grabs my ****.

That is why I have a girl friend that is already in love with me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Great Stuff 00Kevin... again!

but how did you get to that point?
lol
 
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I think you need to stop analyzing, take her out on the most 'datish' date you can, and kiss her. If she denies your advances, get rid of her. No questions, no analyzing, no stipulations, just cut her off.

It's not definitely a bad sign that she's opening up to you, you just have to let her know that you want to be with her on a romantic level and not on a Dr. Phil level.
 
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dude girls like this are goin to give you a run for your money. if shes been hurt recently then she probalby has a one track mind. dont put up with her bs. she probably has low self esteem. if you want her as a gf then you need to show her that your diffent dont bone immediatley cause as soon as she bones some dude shell feel all used and hurt so be there for her but not too much. but the main thing is deny her at first of doing anythign with you. then open up and do whatever that should be sufficient
 
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