"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi there.

For the first 18 years of my life i vowed, i would never let it happen. My dad was addicted and there was no f*cking way it was gonna happen to me. Then i tried it, first time was alright, then whenever i started getting drunk i wanted to do it. Last night, i smoked 4 cigarettes, most i've ever smoked.

I never thought it could happen, i always thought i had the willpower to not get addicted, but it happened. Lets just say this has been the worst day of my life.

I have never wanted anything in my life more than a smoke. If your a smoker than i finally understand what you go through when you tried to quit. This is hell man, everytime i see a smoke i want one.

If you aren't smoking and don't want to start, don't ever smoke one. You'll think "Oh i won't get addicted" And you will, it'll blindside you and you can't control it. You think you can, but you can't Nicotine is the devil.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't drink. Problem solved.
 

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thats not possible, i'm just never gonna let myself do it again. I mean if i get over hunger pains (the worst feeling ever). I can get over this.
 

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Originally posted by Disconnect
gl hf.
Holy crap did this forum just turn into starcraft for a second? Oh wait its back to normal, there it is again! AHHHH
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think I'm gonna pick up smoking now.
 

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Good plan evil, need another way to kill yourself. YAY

I figure, drinkings a hella lot more fun than smoking, plus you get drunk enough you black out, then no regrets!
 

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I know what you mean.

Actually...I don't cuz I don't drink or smoke. AND NEVER WILL.

My dad was actually like, "have a taste of thie beer" and I was like oh **** dude that smells like fukin alcohol.

**** that sounded stupid. Actually I was like, man that smells like shat!

My dad quit smoking just for me when I was born to protect both our lungs. I'm not gonna let that go to waste.
 

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I think there was a study, that when people are drunk, they want to smoke.

Sometimes, when I'm drunk I smoke a a couple of cigarettes, but no more then 3. Never got addicted, though.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
I know what you mean.

Actually...I don't cuz I don't drink or smoke. AND NEVER WILL.

My dad was actually like, "have a taste of thie beer" and I was like oh **** dude that smells like fukin alcohol.

**** that sounded stupid. Actually I was like, man that smells like shat!

My dad quit smoking just for me when I was born to protect both our lungs. I'm not gonna let that go to waste.
Good for you dude, NEVER go against your word. I did.

Luckily my dad never smoked inside, so i never had to deal with it.

Also my dad was an alcoholic when i was in 5-6th grade. I vowed i would never drink alcohol. Hell i wouldn't even drink communion wine. Its funny how things change.

Stick with what you believe. Peer pressure is a motherf*cker. It hits hard and unexpected.

Those video tapes from DARE are stupid. No kid comes up to you and is all "Hey man wanna joint"

Its more subtle, all your friends are smoking, and you start thinking, man i wanna try that... and whatever you believed somehow is forgotten in an instant.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I only smoke when I drink, I've been doing that since around March. If I'm drunk, the urge to smoke is really strong but when I'm sober I never even think about it. Which is good, because I really don't wanna become completely addicted.
 

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Originally posted by Slimijs
I think there was a study, that when people are drunk, they want to smoke.

Sometimes, when I'm drunk I smoke a a couple of cigarettes, but no more then 3. Never got addicted, though.
Take my advice.

If you don't want to get addicted, stop, now! I don't care if you haven't got addicted yet, you will. Its how all my friends got addicted. And its how i almost got addicted.

Don't tempt fates.
 

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Why don't you guys smoke weed instead of cigarettes? It's temporary effects are stronger, and it's not addictive.
 

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yeah seriously man if ur gonna **** urself up atleast have fun doing it. hahaha
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You aren't addicted phsyically yet, most physically addicted smokers smoke one about every 40 minutes. I know this because I'm physically addicted. Physically addicted smokers usually go shake vigorously for about a week once they decide to quit, after a week - two weeks you no longer have cravings. What you're experiencing is only mental-- you want to smoke, you enjoy it, and you don't want to quit.
 

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Originally posted by Jester
yeah seriously man if ur gonna **** urself up atleast have fun doing it. hahaha
Because smoking weed is not fun, its stupid. But this thread is not gonna get started on that. I smoked for 2 years and hated it, boring.

Lets laugh for 20 minutes, lets get the munchies, lets eat junkfood, lets pass-out. hmm funtimes...
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
Those video tapes from DARE are stupid. No kid comes up to you and is all "Hey man wanna joint"

Its more subtle, all your friends are smoking, and you start thinking, man i wanna try that... and whatever you believed somehow is forgotten in an instant.
Damn man...thanks for the tip. Its great how you're coming back here to tell us to learn from your mistakes.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Damn man...thanks for the tip. Its great how you're coming back here to tell us to learn from your mistakes.
Glad i can be of service
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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