"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I only see you as a friend...

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Recently ive been hangin out with a girl but one night she goes I only see you as a friend and nothing really more then that. This sucks..im pretty sure this will never change but whats the deal with this. Its not the first time this has happened to me!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Check out the "No such thing as girl friends" thread I brought back from the dead (8 months ago) and tell me if you agree, I'm not going to copy/paste the whole thing.
 
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Lost1 Recently ive been hangin out with a girl but one night she goes I only see you as a friend and nothing really more then that. This sucks..im pretty sure this will never change but whats the deal with this. Its not the first time this has happened to me!
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Yeah, this is the typical syndrome that many of us have been through.. The dreaded LJBF ("Lets Just Be Friends). The problem with females is that the way that they see guys is that they can like him but not necessarily be attracted to him romantically. Same thing if you think a chick is cool but would never have anything to do with her relationship-wise. It's all about if you appear "masculine" and charming to trigger any attraction.

But again, like it's been said on this forum time and time again when this kind of thing arises...

NEXT!
 
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forget that girl anyway i talked to a new girl today!
 
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